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duoyudejijie

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[交流] 【Discussion】In your eyes ,which is more importent, results or process?

Today, my youger sister participated an jop interview,  although she  prepared this interview with all her endeavor, the results out of her minds! so she  fell very sad ,then I encouraged her and told that process is more importent than the results.
Just now I thinking seriously, and founld what i told to her is wrong in some cases. so i wonder your view ,which is more importent, results or process?
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duoyudejijie(金币+1): If you think twice ,maybe you will find they are all important! hehe 2011-04-16 19:16:40
process
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duoyudejijie(金币+1): That's right ,but molst of us put more emphasis on the results in daily life! 2011-04-16 19:20:03
Maybe failure is not a bad thing ~~~~
one failure predicts another fortunate~~~

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duoyudejijie(金币+1): God help the guy who can do everything seriously! 2011-04-16 19:50:24
Process might not bring us the expected result. But still we could have a good harvest somehow.
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duoyudejijie(金币+1): yes, It really is our goal! 2011-04-16 20:18:08
We can learn or gain something in the process,
but we still feel disappointed when we can't make our dreams come true.
After all, we all hope our pay can exchange for harvest.
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duoyudejijie(金币+1): Failure is the mother of success,so face the bad results like to the good! 2011-04-16 20:37:41
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no process, no result.
8楼2011-04-16 20:42:40
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results
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i think just as you said, maybe the answer is different with different cases.

as for job hunting, the result is more important, i think.

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lppv(金币+2): enjoy the process, think twice before doing, success will come spontaneously.nice opinion. 2011-04-17 20:05:14
I think this topic is interesting... You know, my major is physics, so I do really enjoy the process of learning of accepting a new theory or idea. of course, we also expect to get a reasonable result, but if you do not enjoy your process, you can hardly get a satisfied result. Try to be creative and careful, think twice before doing sth. , success will come spontaneously...
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phu_grassman(金币+1): I also think process weighs much. 2011-05-22 19:58:49
goog process is good result !so process is important !best wish to you !
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result,absolutately!
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witch_girl(金币+1): yes. and maybe what you said is what she can do and should do. :) 2011-04-17 20:05:39
For  your sister, failure is not horrible. Just summon up to try another chance. Maybe  she could learn something from it and then the experience will help her find a much better job.
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duoyudejijie

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Originally posted by witch_girl at 2011-04-16 21:13:57:
i think just as you said, maybe the answer is different with different cases.

as for job hunting, the result is more important, i think.


Yes, I think in this situation the rusults is more important for employee!
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duoyudejijie

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Originally posted by lppv at 2011-04-16 20:42:40:
no process, no result.

yeah, It's ture, but no results ,the process maybe changed.
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lppv(金币+1): who is the"somebody"?:DWELCOME TO ENGLISH CAFE. 2011-04-17 21:54:04
In my opinion,both important。just as somebody said:no process no result。
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phu_grassman(金币+1): Good. Result seems painless without process. 2011-05-22 19:59:56
result is importan, but i also enjoy the process.
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i am sorry ,i didn't pay much attention . you have said it.
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phu_grassman(金币+2): No process, no result. 2011-05-22 20:01:36
To tell the truth, though many say process is more important than the result, which I kind of agree, but in real life, if you cannot get a satisfying result, it is hard for you to truly enjoy the process!!
For your sister, the result of the interview is important. what she wants to get is the job, not just the "process lesson"...I understand...
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absolutely the result!
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phu_grassman(金币+1): I somewhat believe the saying that he who smiles in the last is the best. 2011-05-22 20:03:26
The results certainly matters a lot. Everyone wants a good result and hope can enjoy the process, too. If you are failed, please think about the successes you have got.  Your past success always came after failures. So, take it easy. Maybe you will smile next time.
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in our society ,i  think result is more important than process ,when you will start your job
23楼2011-04-18 13:11:18
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enjoy the process, expect a good result.

a bad result will make people depressed.
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phu_grassman(金币+1): A good understanding. 2011-05-22 20:07:51
to others ,the result
to myself, the process.
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phu_grassman(金币+1): So process is more important to you. 2011-05-22 20:08:33
it is the mother of sucess .Cherishing every time you encounter, it will teach you true life. you know ,you will learn more.
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phu_grassman(金币+1): Every result has its process. 2011-05-22 20:09:04
both ;enjoy the progress and think highly of the result; after all,everything has its rusult.
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yangguai

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this is the life and life.this is the process of our growth,don't too sadness
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phu_grassman(金币+1): Process makes us feel fulfilling. 2011-05-22 20:09:41
process!althought it maybe let you down ,the process is wonderful!!Bless to you!!!
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phu_grassman(金币+1): Every process has a result. Whatever bad or good, just enjoy the process. 2011-05-22 20:10:19
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phu_grassman(金币+3): Process or result, either is important. What we want is the result and what we can learn is the process. 2011-05-22 20:12:28
Well, in our daily life, we ofteh hear somebody says that when when we do one thing, the process is important than the result. This is partially right. From the process, we can learn  something, for example, the experience, but this opinion has its side-effect. This view point will make some people find some reason, or excuse for his failure. So I think, both the result and the process are important, and the result is more important.
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duoyudejijie

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Originally posted by Alex_Feng at 2011-05-22 18:21:10:
Well, in our daily life, we ofteh hear somebody says that when when we do one thing, the process is important than the result. This is partially right. From the process, we can learn  something, fo ...

Yeah ,that's absolutly right !Thanks for shareing ur view.
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phu_grassman(金币+2): It depends as it is. 2011-05-23 12:17:51
it all depends .for somebody else ,result is important,they couldn't see the hard time you go through ,so they only focus on the result .but for ourselves
,maybe process is more important ,we experience these ,we can understand it ,during that time ,we know how hard it is !  just in case ,if you fail to do  sth ,remember keep up,try it again .maybe you win next time .
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Alex_Feng

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Originally posted by duoyudejijie at 2011-05-22 18:33:50:
Yeah ,that's absolutly right !Thanks for shareing ur view.

You're welcome. And it's my pleasure to jion in your topic~
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phu_grassman(金币+1): So enjoy both of them. 2011-05-23 12:18:19
From the point of my view,both of them are important.
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process is more importent than the results
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phu_grassman(金币+1): fighting! Good luck to you. 2011-05-23 12:18:47
process, all your efforts today will be paid  back one day in the near future
fighting
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Both,I think.We are happy and satisfactory if only we win the both……
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phu_grassman(金币+4): I can't agree more. You've made an incisive analysis. 2011-05-23 12:20:09
A very good question actually. When people are asked the question like ‘do you enjoy the process or the result’ , possibly most of them would choose process. Of course, I’d like to say the process too. Since most of us here are doing sort of scientific job, in every experiment and task, we are sure to learn new stuff no matter experiments fail or not. However if the question changes to ‘do you mind the result at all?’ Yes, I do. Experiment failure means I won’t have my data and I can’t produce my research output in short time. That is pain, especially in China.
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process
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It is hard to say!
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phu_grassman(金币+1): So it is. 2011-06-08 06:55:59
A good result after enjoying the process will be the best.
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phu_grassman(金币+2): Good. We learn from the process. 2011-06-08 06:56:36
in my opinion ,for youngs process is more importat,we could get more from the process!we could know our real ability in the social!then ,a objective project should be made according to what you learn from the process!
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phu_grassman(金币+1): Process gives us more beyond an objective course. 2011-06-08 06:58:31
maybe process i think   because sooner or later you will find all of your result just a result to you  but the process will always be in your mind!~
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duoyudejijie

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Originally posted by ydy885 at 2011-06-07 14:58:28:
in my opinion ,for youngs process is more importat,we could get more from the process!we could know our real ability in the social!then ,a objective project should be made according to what you lea ...

Yeah , that's ture , we should not  just enjoy the results ,maybe the process can teach we more , thanks for shareing ur opinion
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lppv(金币+2): life is a process, every life has a result. 2011-06-07 21:06:46
when I try very hard for a target,it is the likely good results that motivates me to hold on. when I go through the tough process and succedd finally,I forget all the strugglings and tend to reckon everything I did is worthy.If there comes bad results,I may feel upset.But I think I can learn from the process.The process is gone, the result can not be changed.Enjoy the process and pray for good results.man proposes and god disposes.

both process and results are part of our life.
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phu_grassman(金币+3): So it is. It all depends. 2011-06-08 06:59:43
it depends.
if you have another chance to try it,the process is important than the results,if  you are no more chance,or there are something you can't bear,the results are the more important one.for example,if you are crrosed in love,you can meet one more suit to you one day,the process is more important,if you have to perform a surgey,it's the opposite.
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phu_grassman(金币+5, ESEPI+1): Your words are always so comforting and encouraging. Thanks for your suggestion. 2011-06-08 07:01:30
Different cases, different answers to the question"which is more important, process or result".  In my opinion, since your sister has only one  chance , so the result is more important. It's really a pity.
  But, please persuade your sister to insist on her endeavor. Sometime, fortune is also important. From my own experience, maybe it's a little mysterious .When the fortune comes close to you, I feel that, almost everything can be well done; but, on the opposite,  althought I am well-prepared, the final result is always the failure.   
     Therefore, it's normal for all of us to fail, and it's normal to feel sad when we are failed. And in addition, it's difficult to say for your sister, maybe in the near future, she will get another batter job. So, just take it easy, everyting will be fine.

[ Last edited by amywanghebsz on 2011-6-7 at 22:57 ]
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phu_grassman(金币+2): Maybe There is no set answer to the question. 2011-06-08 07:02:39
Result is import than process.

In China, if you want to prepare some position, the results that you have gotten are much import than what  you have experienced.

This is only my personal opinion.
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