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duoyudejijie

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[交流] 【Discussion】In your eyes ,which is more importent, results or process?

Today, my youger sister participated an jop interview,  although she  prepared this interview with all her endeavor, the results out of her minds! so she  fell very sad ,then I encouraged her and told that process is more importent than the results.
Just now I thinking seriously, and founld what i told to her is wrong in some cases. so i wonder your view ,which is more importent, results or process?
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phu_grassman(金币+5, ESEPI+1): Your words are always so comforting and encouraging. Thanks for your suggestion. 2011-06-08 07:01:30
Different cases, different answers to the question"which is more important, process or result".  In my opinion, since your sister has only one  chance , so the result is more important. It's really a pity.
  But, please persuade your sister to insist on her endeavor. Sometime, fortune is also important. From my own experience, maybe it's a little mysterious .When the fortune comes close to you, I feel that, almost everything can be well done; but, on the opposite,  althought I am well-prepared, the final result is always the failure.   
     Therefore, it's normal for all of us to fail, and it's normal to feel sad when we are failed. And in addition, it's difficult to say for your sister, maybe in the near future, she will get another batter job. So, just take it easy, everyting will be fine.

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huangzx1314

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duoyudejijie(金币+1): That's right ,but molst of us put more emphasis on the results in daily life! 2011-04-16 19:20:03
Maybe failure is not a bad thing ~~~~
one failure predicts another fortunate~~~

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duoyudejijie(金币+1): God help the guy who can do everything seriously! 2011-04-16 19:50:24
Process might not bring us the expected result. But still we could have a good harvest somehow.
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duoyudejijie(金币+1): yes, It really is our goal! 2011-04-16 20:18:08
We can learn or gain something in the process,
but we still feel disappointed when we can't make our dreams come true.
After all, we all hope our pay can exchange for harvest.
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