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According to the new statistics of the civil administration，in the first quarter，the divorce rate has rised by seventeen point one percent than that last year and the rising rate has sustained for seven years.Suddenly I find people‘s marriage concept has changed a lot. In the days of our elder generation，they experienced much difficulty but they didn't divorce.Just what happened in our life，while our substance wealth is enough？ what is the reason of leading to this？ Is people’s endurance decreasing along with increasing wealth，or people think marriage is not important any more？ Also,If the marriage would not be happy，how can we face it and save it.Someone says child is ligament of marriage.As people says，ones transfer love and responsibilty to their descendant after marriage.I don‘t know whether it is right or not. Can you say out your opinion about the topic here and discuss it.Maybe it is useful for us now or future.  |
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lichongqing(金币+2): Thank you 2011-06-10 09:20:49
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lichongqing(金币+2): Thank you 2011-06-10 09:20:49
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this is a complex and annoying problem. why should we marry? http://muchong.com/bbs/viewthread.php?tid=3244098&fpage=0&view=&highlight=&page=1 there is another classmate going to marry http://muchong.com/bbs/viewthread.php?tid=3129723 |
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lichongqing(金币+2): Yeah，the communication is essential and important 2011-06-09 15:05:07
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lichongqing(金币+2): Yeah，the communication is essential and important 2011-06-09 15:05:07
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The diivorce rate of Beijing is 39% in 2o11 ,The second is Shanghai which is 38%,The following is Shenzhen, Guangzhou,Xiamen,Taibei,Hongkong... When can see that the more developed areas ,the more dicorce rate. I think in big cities, people are more indepentent in economy ,at the same time they have more pressure of the life. The couple may spend more time on earning more money .They lack of communication. Gradually divorce happens. |
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lichongqing(金币+3): helpful opinion…freedom in economic，loss of cognitive competence about marriage and being puzzled in complex society 2011-06-09 16:17:40
lppv(金币+5, ESEPI+1): The rhythm of life has been accelerated,people have lost patience ... all is so complex and makes me annoyed.I also expect a simple life. simple love,simple but eternal. 2011-06-09 17:03:29
lichongqing(金币+3): helpful opinion…freedom in economic，loss of cognitive competence about marriage and being puzzled in complex society 2011-06-09 16:17:40
lppv(金币+5, ESEPI+1): The rhythm of life has been accelerated,people have lost patience ... all is so complex and makes me annoyed.I also expect a simple life. simple love,simple but eternal. 2011-06-09 17:03:29
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I think it is a very complicated problem, also a real reflection of present social contradiction. [ Last edited by seaharrier on 2011-6-9 at 15:40 ] |
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lichongqing(金币+2): useful comment,Yes,we should hold on with great responsibility in our marriage 2011-07-11 15:45:14
lppv(金币+5, ESEPI+1): yeah, marrige is not a game. treat it seriously. do not say dovorce easily. 2011-07-11 22:50:36
lichongqing(金币+2): useful comment,Yes,we should hold on with great responsibility in our marriage 2011-07-11 15:45:14
lppv(金币+5, ESEPI+1): yeah, marrige is not a game. treat it seriously. do not say dovorce easily. 2011-07-11 22:50:36
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Why does rate of divorce is rising rapidly? In my opinions, there are several critical factors to attribute to this phenomenon. First of all, with the rapid development of economy and the rising of living standard, most people are independent in economy, especially women, they differ from women of the old days, they can live well independantly, so only enough materials can`t meet their needs, they are looking forward to have a good spiritual life. secondly, with the deepening of reform and opening-up, people`s the way looking at things is changing, divorce as an ordinary thing is accepted by people, the role of morality constraining divorce becomes more and more weaker. when conflict occurs, the couple would prefer to choose divorce, rather than to communicate each other. thirdly, with amusment on the rise, one knows more people, people have more chance to practise extramarital affairs, It is said that this is the key reason for divorce. In general, the essential reason is that today young people is lack of a strong of responsibility which plays an important role in marriage. fourthly, some young people tend to choose flash marriage, they haven`t enough time to understand each other, as the saying goes "flash marrige, flash divorce". In a word, marriage is not a game, we must look carefully before marry, when we enter into marriage, we need more patience and understandings to deal with our marriages. |
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lppv(金币+1): agree some. think twice before the marrige. 2011-07-11 22:47:47
lppv(金币+1): agree some. think twice before the marrige. 2011-07-11 22:47:47
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lichongqing(金币+1): okey,best wishes 2011-07-11 16:17:04
| Whatever the world will be due to cultrure, value, etc. The most important thing for us is in search of Mr./Miss right. Maybe the selected one will not be the most beautiful or the most wealthy, but everything will be all right as long as your company could fit you very well. So preserve own perspective in your deep heart and try to find the right one. |
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lppv(金币+5): your analysis sounds penetrating。economy is independent, divorce, who pa who? no love no marrige. divorce is normal , is not ashamed now. ...thank you for your opinion. 2011-09-03 20:17:54
lppv(金币+5): your analysis sounds penetrating。economy is independent, divorce, who pa who? no love no marrige. divorce is normal , is not ashamed now. ...thank you for your opinion. 2011-09-03 20:17:54
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I think there are several reasons. each other is independent in economy, this is differernt from our parents's years. in that time, most wives depent much on husbands, who are vulnerable groups. our thoughts is emancipatory, our value is changing. For example, marriage preceded love, but we can't receive this marriage now, love must precede the marriage. Therefore, most yong people inpetus, as flash marriage, they find they are not suitable for each other, so lightning divorce. the concet of happyness has changed. if the couples think they were not suitable for each other, they will say good-bye, and pursuit of happyness with others. if they have the child, their child should persuade the couple to divorce. however, in the past, the divorce is the ashamed. attract is more and more.the certain people can't withstand the temptation. |
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