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[交流] About marriage,come on everyone

According to the new statistics of the civil administration，in the first quarter，the divorce rate has rised by seventeen point one percent than that last year and the rising rate has sustained for seven years.Suddenly I find people‘s marriage concept has changed a lot. In the days of our elder generation，they experienced much difficulty but they didn't divorce.Just what happened in our life，while our substance wealth is enough？
what is the reason of leading to this？ Is people’s endurance decreasing along with increasing wealth，or people think marriage is not important any more？
Also,If the marriage would not be happy，how can we face it and save it.Someone says child is ligament of marriage.As people says，ones transfer love and responsibilty to their descendant after marriage.I don‘t know whether it is right or
not.
Can you say out your opinion about the topic here and discuss it.Maybe it is useful for us now or future.

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lppv(金币+5): your analysis sounds penetrating。economy is independent, divorce, who pa who? no love no marrige. divorce is normal , is not ashamed now. ...thank you for your opinion. 2011-09-03 20:17:54

I think there are  several reasons.
each other is independent in economy, this is differernt from our parents's years. in that time, most wives depent much on husbands, who are vulnerable groups.
our thoughts is emancipatory, our value is changing. For example, marriage preceded love, but we can't  receive this marriage now, love must precede the marriage. Therefore, most yong people inpetus, as flash marriage, they find they are not suitable for each other, so lightning divorce.
  the concet of happyness has changed. if the couples think they were not suitable for each other, they will say good-bye, and pursuit of happyness with others. if they have the child, their  child should persuade the couple to divorce.
however, in the past, the divorce is the ashamed.
attract is more and more.the certain people can't withstand the temptation.