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lichongqing

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[交流] About marriage,come on everyone

According to the new statistics of  the civil administration,in the first quarter,the divorce rate has rised by seventeen point one percent than that last year and the rising rate has sustained for seven years.Suddenly I find people‘s marriage concept has changed a lot. In the days of our elder generation,they experienced much difficulty but they didn't divorce.Just what happened in our life,while our substance wealth is enough?
what is the reason of leading to this? Is people’s endurance decreasing along with increasing wealth,or people think marriage is not important any more?
Also,If the marriage would not be happy,how can we face it and save it.Someone says child is ligament of marriage.As people says,ones transfer love and responsibilty to their descendant after marriage.I don‘t know whether it is right or
not.
Can you say out your opinion about the topic here and discuss it.Maybe it is useful for us now or future.
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lichongqing(金币+3): helpful opinion…freedom in economic,loss of cognitive competence about marriage and being puzzled in complex society 2011-06-09 16:17:40
lppv(金币+5, ESEPI+1): The rhythm of life has been accelerated,people have lost patience ... all is so complex and makes me annoyed.I also expect a simple life. simple love,simple but eternal. 2011-06-09 17:03:29

I think it is a very complicated problem, also a real reflection of present social contradiction.
Social environment has been changing tremendously along with the rapid economical development.
Young people encounter a completely different growth environment. There is a saying that it's the economic base to determine the superstructure constitute. Now, the young ones can freely make a choice of his/her job, of the city of the job, and also freely allocate their salary.
The rhythm of life has been so accelerated that even the elderly people who have rich experience can not afford enough patience.
Our society has not yet provided adequate cognitive competence of the complex social environment for the young people , especially when confronting problems of marriage and family.
We are in a period involving violent innovations in all respects.
On the one hand, we are enjoying the huge freedom of material and spirit,  and on the other,  we are trapped on the net of material and spirit which is really depends on the intricate social relations.
I am always expecting a happy and simple life as well as this style of marriage and family.



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lichongqing(金币+2): useful comment,Yes,we should hold on with great responsibility in our marriage 2011-07-11 15:45:14
lppv(金币+5, ESEPI+1): yeah, marrige is not a game. treat it seriously. do not say dovorce easily. 2011-07-11 22:50:36
Why does rate of divorce is rising rapidly?

In my opinions, there are several critical factors to attribute to this phenomenon.
First of all, with the rapid development of economy and the rising of living standard, most people are independent in economy, especially women, they differ from women of the old days, they can live well independantly,  so only enough materials can`t meet their needs, they are looking forward to have a good spiritual life.
secondly, with the deepening of reform and opening-up, people`s the way looking at things is changing, divorce as an ordinary thing is accepted by people, the role of morality constraining divorce becomes more and more weaker. when conflict occurs, the couple would prefer to choose divorce, rather than to communicate each other.
thirdly, with amusment on the rise, one knows more people, people have more chance to practise extramarital affairs, It is said that this is the key reason for divorce. In general, the essential reason is that today young people is lack of a strong of responsibility which plays an important role in marriage.
fourthly, some young people tend to choose flash marriage, they haven`t enough time to understand each other, as the saying goes "flash marrige, flash divorce".

In a word, marriage is not a game, we must look carefully before marry, when we enter into marriage, we need more patience and understandings to deal with our marriages.
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