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lichongqing

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[交流] About marriage,come on everyone

According to the new statistics of  the civil administration,in the first quarter,the divorce rate has rised by seventeen point one percent than that last year and the rising rate has sustained for seven years.Suddenly I find people‘s marriage concept has changed a lot. In the days of our elder generation,they experienced much difficulty but they didn't divorce.Just what happened in our life,while our substance wealth is enough?
what is the reason of leading to this? Is people’s endurance decreasing along with increasing wealth,or people think marriage is not important any more?
Also,If the marriage would not be happy,how can we face it and save it.Someone says child is ligament of marriage.As people says,ones transfer love and responsibilty to their descendant after marriage.I don‘t know whether it is right or
not.
Can you say out your opinion about the topic here and discuss it.Maybe it is useful for us now or future.
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lichongqing(金币+3): helpful opinion…freedom in economic,loss of cognitive competence about marriage and being puzzled in complex society 2011-06-09 16:17:40
lppv(金币+5, ESEPI+1): The rhythm of life has been accelerated,people have lost patience ... all is so complex and makes me annoyed.I also expect a simple life. simple love,simple but eternal. 2011-06-09 17:03:29

I think it is a very complicated problem, also a real reflection of present social contradiction.
Social environment has been changing tremendously along with the rapid economical development.
Young people encounter a completely different growth environment. There is a saying that it's the economic base to determine the superstructure constitute. Now, the young ones can freely make a choice of his/her job, of the city of the job, and also freely allocate their salary.
The rhythm of life has been so accelerated that even the elderly people who have rich experience can not afford enough patience.
Our society has not yet provided adequate cognitive competence of the complex social environment for the young people , especially when confronting problems of marriage and family.
We are in a period involving violent innovations in all respects.
On the one hand, we are enjoying the huge freedom of material and spirit,  and on the other,  we are trapped on the net of material and spirit which is really depends on the intricate social relations.
I am always expecting a happy and simple life as well as this style of marriage and family.



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lichongqing(金币+1):谢谢参与
lichongqing(金币+1): best wishes,wish this brick can draw forth jade 2011-06-09 12:37:35
it is useful for me, i am preparing for my wedding. thank you!
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Originally posted by ljason at 2011-06-09 12:33:40:

ljason is always so quick
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Originally posted by lichongqing at 2011-06-09 12:34:39:
ljason is always so quick

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Originally posted by lichongqing at 2011-06-09 12:43:23: more suggestions more BBs

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