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Recently i am in deep trouble,so i need you help,i am eager for your advice.Thanks！ It have disturb me since i went to college and then met hom.He is one of my classmates and also my friend.i have to accept him to bey friend because there are only nine boyes in my class.Among them the five including me have become friends since they met.After some time the one brings trouble to me also maybe all of us appeared his natural character that he always communicate with others implitely and often distain others which include the four.Maybe the rest do not have so much complains and motions,but i can not put up with him especially when he talk with me with his arrogant tone,and what makes me more awful is that he sometimes will laugh at me.But i cannot break the friendship and have to pretend to be kind since others seem to be friendly to him. So please help me.Thanks. [ 发自手机版 http://muchong.com/3g ] |
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winter_north: 金币+3, In fact, I think it is not worthwhile or possible to move everyone with you sincereness, it is not necessary. 2012-11-19 22:58:17
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NickHu: 金币+2, It just did not work out,but thank you anyhow. 2012-11-20 09:08:52
winter_north: 金币+3, In fact, I think it is not worthwhile or possible to move everyone with you sincereness, it is not necessary. 2012-11-19 22:58:17
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NickHu: 金币+2, It just did not work out,but thank you anyhow. 2012-11-20 09:08:52
If you're good at balancing relations, you can keep proper friendship with different classifications of persons and meanwhile get unstanding from both sides. Be sincere first, help them more with no goals and give some pertinent advices at the right time to the one rarely welcomed by others. He will be moved by you and be grateful some day.  |
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winter_north: 金币+5, I think, try not to make trouble with him, do what you should do. 2012-11-19 22:59:14
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NickHu: 金币+3, He just knew his bad character since there were several classmates have given some advice to him,but you see it was useless.Anyhow i will try my best to becalm. 2012-11-20 09:11:55
winter_north: 金币+5, I think, try not to make trouble with him, do what you should do. 2012-11-19 22:59:14
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NickHu: 金币+3, He just knew his bad character since there were several classmates have given some advice to him,but you see it was useless.Anyhow i will try my best to becalm. 2012-11-20 09:11:55
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Try to understand how he has such behaviour, and make him understand that he is already disliked by others because of that, and make suggestion to him how he can change to a better people and win more friendship. If he cannot understand or accept your suggestion, then an eye for an eye and make him suffer, then soon he will understand what you mean. |
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winter_north: 金币+8, You have something there! 2012-11-19 23:00:05
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NickHu: 金币+6, Thanks,I should have a try. 2012-11-20 09:17:22
winter_north: 金币+8, You have something there! 2012-11-19 23:00:05
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NickHu: 金币+6, Thanks,I should have a try. 2012-11-20 09:17:22
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I can not know some words in your writen even consulted dictionary.I do not know if I understand your mean.You have a freind who is so impolite that you can not endure.It look that he has this character before he go to college.And then,you found it,but your are already freind.So you feel disturbing,worry about how to deal with this freindship.My suggestion is that you just take it easy.A people who often vent his emotion usually do not bottle up secrets and feeling.They laugh for happy,cry for sad...They express their true feeling.Of couese,they may hard to get along with others for a word out of season.May he do not know he have hurted you already.If you treat he as a freind,help him do some change.such as respect others,modest and others.If you really do not want to do this.Try to keep him at a distance.Maybe it is the pay for grow up.For me,you will have lived and learned with he for four years,why do not you help him? [ Last edited by fj0623009 on 2012-11-19 at 22:28 ] |
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NickHu: 金币+5, i will enjoy the movie.thanks 2012-11-20 13:49:15
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NickHu: 金币+5, i will enjoy the movie.thanks 2012-11-20 13:49:15
| i think there is no friendship between you guys. friends never behave like this. so, this is not about friendship,this is about how to get along with people who you have to meet everyday. i was wandering, have you ever seen the film the big bang theory? maybe you should try to learn something from sheldon(the charactor in the movie). sheldon is an extremely arrogant person, because he is smarter than anybody else. but he know nothing about how to deal whith the relationship between his friends. however, he never feel upset, because he is so self-confident that he can just ignore everybody and what they say, and nothing can makes him upset. so, maybe you should be a little confident, and do not care much about his comment. what he said, you ignore it, then you will find nothing bothers you. |
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winter_north: 金币+3, Oh, telling the truth to a friend is helpful to him/her. 2012-11-25 03:42:15
winter_north: 金币+3, Oh, telling the truth to a friend is helpful to him/her. 2012-11-25 03:42:15
| As a friend, you should tell him the truth, he what do wrong, I hope he can correct, and the other friend also be friendly, can become the friend is not easy, should be taken seriously. If he often teach not to change, you can consider to give up his this friend |
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