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There must be something unwilling to come during our daily life£¬some days ago £¬my senior sister apprentice ask me to synthesis some intermediate products for her£¬ but i'm busy these days£¬i haven't the wit to say no£¬if you meet something similar to me £¬what would you do£¿£¿
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[ Last edited by ÃÞÁ峿 on 2013-6-25 at 09:46 ]
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curton: »ØÌûÖö¥ 2013-07-18 11:14:49
curton: ½ð±Ò+5, Most labs will not allow people to work alone because a runaway experiment can be a serious fire hazard 2013-07-18 11:14:58
Most labs will not allow people to work alone because a runaway experiment can be a serious fire hazard
Besides the apprentice should have the decency of making time for her own work.  
If she's willing to accompany you but needs to check her schedule, then you've bought time.  
If she appears unwilling to accommodate you in any way, then you have a perfect reason to back out
People who need help must be accommodative.... "Beggers cannot be choosers."
If you don't want to refuse the apprentice outright, let a co-worker or whoever controls your time do that for you.  That other person is not burdened by friendship.
There... three roundabout ways of saying: "No"
20Â¥2013-07-05 22:23:51
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ÃÞÁ峿: ½ð±Ò+1, the first person to say something 2013-06-25 09:54:35
Do it
3Â¥2013-06-25 09:49:22
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lysrandy: ½ð±Ò+2, good idea,give suggestions when she needs. 2013-06-25 14:27:02
maybe you are unwilling to help her, you can say your are so busy that you cannot assit to synthesis some products .you can tell her some methods.let her do it by herself ,if she still have no idea,you may give some suggestions in details .
4Â¥2013-06-25 10:12:17
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ÃÞÁ峿: ½ð±Ò+2 2013-06-25 10:47:04
Honesty is the best policy. Just tell her that you are kept so busy that you cannot spare enough time for this.But try to be polite in yourtone. Say something like: I'm so sorry that I am not be able to help this time as I've been busy with...
maybe next time.....
5Â¥2013-06-25 10:35:03
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ÃÞÁ峿: ½ð±Ò+1 2013-06-25 15:50:44
tell her the turth and say you are sorry for that
6Â¥2013-06-25 12:47:13
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ÃÞÁ峿: ½ð±Ò+1 2013-06-25 15:50:38
you may tell her you are buzy these days, you can not give her the intermediate products immediately.
if this is an urgent need,you can give your suggestions when she does it herself.
7Â¥2013-06-25 14:41:07
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ÃÞÁ峿: ½ð±Ò+1 2013-06-25 15:49:46
just say no, tell her you are busy, why is it difficult? i would just say no if i do not want to do something. once you get used to say no, you will not feel uncomfortable any more
8Â¥2013-06-25 15:15:58
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8Â¥: Originally posted by kongkeke at 2013-06-25 15:15:58
just say no, tell her you are busy, why is it difficult? i would just say no if i do not want to do something. once you get used to say no, you will not feel uncomfortable any more

perhaps£¬you are right £¬what i need is just a try£¬thank you
9Â¥2013-06-25 15:48:35
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May2012: ½ð±Ò+1, I think such words are useful.... 2013-06-30 13:09:38
I may say i was too busy to help you to finish it. But i can tell you how to do it. If you have trouble in the experience, I will help you to solve it.
10Â¥2013-06-25 16:08:32
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ÃÞÁ峿: ½ð±Ò+1 2013-06-25 20:23:41
listen to your heart
11Â¥2013-06-25 20:20:15
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ÃÞÁ峿: ½ð±Ò+1 2013-06-26 10:51:26
You can say that you have something urgent to do,if time allows,you can helf her later.
12Â¥2013-06-26 10:04:58
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ÃÞÁ峿: ½ð±Ò+1 2013-06-26 15:31:38
i don't think it is so bad for you just to spit it out, "no" "no""no". no special wit is needed. helping others is virtue, but being yourself is nature, don't let those unnecessary excuses bother you
13Â¥2013-06-26 14:24:56
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15Â¥2013-06-30 02:07:53
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fungixx: ½ð±Ò+1, yeah` just let her know the truth~ she will understand~ 2013-07-03 12:30:24
Just tell her the truth,If u cannot finish your job how can u help her,it doesn't matter,she can understand u

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16Â¥2013-06-30 09:15:48
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ÃÞÁ峿: ½ð±Ò+1 2013-07-02 12:30:00
It should not be too hard for you to tell her that you are busy and have no time to help her~ Good luck to louzhu~

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17Â¥2013-07-01 23:21:27
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tell her the truth
18Â¥2013-07-02 23:02:10
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if l am in your place¡¢l will clearly say no ¡£if you,choose another answer¡¢do it well

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19Â¥2013-07-04 21:34:18
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curton: ½ð±Ò+2, Remember to take advantage of lab safety, exam schedule 2013-07-18 11:15:10
Quick follow-up:
Remember to take advantage of lab safety, exam schedule,... etc as much as possible.  Let them be your cover.
21Â¥2013-07-05 22:36:53
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I would tell her my real situation that i dont' have time directly.
22Â¥2013-07-06 06:23:11
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curton: ½ð±Ò+2, let her know your reason directly, be honest 2013-07-18 11:15:23
let her know your reason directly, be honest, just tell her your problem, i think if she is your sister,she can understand it.
23Â¥2013-07-08 16:28:15
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curton: ½ð±Ò+2, ,there is no time to help her,and you can give her some suggestion or recommend someone others. 2013-07-18 11:15:31
you can say that I am so busy,there is no time to help her,and you can give her some suggestion or recommend someone others.
24Â¥2013-07-10 09:00:57
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curton: ½ð±Ò+2, When you have some trouble to find help from your classmates.If she told you she is so busy that she have no time to help you. 2013-07-18 11:15:48
When you have some trouble to find help from your classmates.If she told you she is so busy that she have no time to help you.
Can you understand her?
25Â¥2013-07-10 09:46:51
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