应《网络安全法》要求，自2017年10月1日起，未进行实名认证将不得使用互联网跟帖服务。为保障您的帐号能够正常使用，请尽快对帐号进行手机号验证，感谢您的理解与支持！

24小时热门版块排行榜    

Znn3bq.jpeg
小木虫论坛-学术科研互动平台 » 科研生活区 » English Cafe » Affective interaction » how to say no？
251/1返回列表
查看: 2070  |  回复: 24
只看楼主 @他人 存档 新回复提醒 (忽略) 收藏    在APP中查看

棉铃虫

金虫 (正式写手)

[交流] how to say no？

There must be something unwilling to come during our daily life，some days ago ，my senior sister apprentice ask me to synthesis some intermediate products for her， but i'm busy these days，i haven't the wit to say no，if you meet something similar to me ，what would you do？？
how to say no？
11.gif



[ Last edited by 棉铃虫 on 2013-6-25 at 09:46 ]
回复此楼

» 猜你喜欢

» 抢金币啦！回帖就可以得到:

查看全部散金贴
1楼 2013-06-25 09:40:08
已阅   回复此楼   关注TA 给TA发消息 送TA红花 TA的回帖
回帖置顶 ( 共有1个 )

mac194

铁虫 (职业作家)
★ ★ ★ ★ ★
curton: 回帖置顶 2013-07-18 11:14:49
curton: 金币+5, Most labs will not allow people to work alone because a runaway experiment can be a serious fire hazard 2013-07-18 11:14:58
Most labs will not allow people to work alone because a runaway experiment can be a serious fire hazard
Besides the apprentice should have the decency of making time for her own work.  
If she's willing to accompany you but needs to check her schedule, then you've bought time.  
If she appears unwilling to accommodate you in any way, then you have a perfect reason to back out
People who need help must be accommodative.... "Beggers cannot be choosers."
If you don't want to refuse the apprentice outright, let a co-worker or whoever controls your time do that for you.  That other person is not burdened by friendship.
There... three roundabout ways of saying: "No"
赞一下 回复此楼
20楼2013-07-05 22:23:51
已阅   回复此楼   关注TA 给TA发消息 送TA红花 TA的回帖

nicholaspei

铜虫 (正式写手)
★ ★
小木虫: 金币+0.2, 抢了个小板凳，给个红包
棉铃虫: 金币+1, the first person to say something 2013-06-25 09:54:35
Do it
回复此楼
3楼2013-06-25 09:49:22
已阅   回复此楼   关注TA 给TA发消息 送TA红花 TA的回帖

zxhappy

至尊木虫 (职业作家)
★ ★
lysrandy: 金币+2, good idea,give suggestions when she needs. 2013-06-25 14:27:02
maybe you are unwilling to help her, you can say your are so busy that you cannot assit to synthesis some products .you can tell her some methods.let her do it by herself ,if she still have no idea,you may give some suggestions in details .
赞一下 回复此楼
4楼2013-06-25 10:12:17
已阅   回复此楼   关注TA 给TA发消息 送TA红花 TA的回帖

五四青年

至尊木虫 (著名写手)
★ ★
棉铃虫: 金币+2 2013-06-25 10:47:04
Honesty is the best policy. Just tell her that you are kept so busy that you cannot spare enough time for this.But try to be polite in yourtone. Say something like: I'm so sorry that I am not be able to help this time as I've been busy with...
maybe next time.....
赞一下 回复此楼
5楼2013-06-25 10:35:03
已阅   回复此楼   关注TA 给TA发消息 送TA红花 TA的回帖

00waterh

木虫 (知名作家)
★
棉铃虫: 金币+1 2013-06-25 15:50:44
tell her the turth and say you are sorry for that
赞一下 回复此楼
6楼2013-06-25 12:47:13
已阅   回复此楼   关注TA 给TA发消息 送TA红花 TA的回帖

lysrandy

禁虫 (职业作家)
★
棉铃虫: 金币+1 2013-06-25 15:50:38
you may tell her you are buzy these days, you can not give her the intermediate products immediately.
if this is an urgent need,you can give your suggestions when she does it herself.
赞一下 回复此楼
7楼2013-06-25 14:41:07
已阅   回复此楼   关注TA 给TA发消息 送TA红花 TA的回帖

kongkeke

铁杆木虫 (著名写手)
★
棉铃虫: 金币+1 2013-06-25 15:49:46
just say no, tell her you are busy, why is it difficult? i would just say no if i do not want to do something. once you get used to say no, you will not feel uncomfortable any more
赞一下 回复此楼
8楼2013-06-25 15:15:58
已阅   回复此楼   关注TA 给TA发消息 送TA红花 TA的回帖

棉铃虫

金虫 (正式写手)
引用回帖:
8楼: Originally posted by kongkeke at 2013-06-25 15:15:58
just say no, tell her you are busy, why is it difficult? i would just say no if i do not want to do something. once you get used to say no, you will not feel uncomfortable any more

perhaps，you are right ，what i need is just a try，thank you
赞一下 回复此楼
9楼2013-06-25 15:48:35
已阅   回复此楼   关注TA 给TA发消息 送TA红花 TA的回帖

zhangwei19

荣誉版主 (文学泰斗)
★
May2012: 金币+1, I think such words are useful.... 2013-06-30 13:09:38
I may say i was too busy to help you to finish it. But i can tell you how to do it. If you have trouble in the experience, I will help you to solve it.
赞一下 回复此楼
10楼2013-06-25 16:08:32
已阅   回复此楼   关注TA 给TA发消息 送TA红花 TA的回帖

lyj6552315

金虫 (小有名气)
★
棉铃虫: 金币+1 2013-06-25 20:23:41
listen to your heart
赞一下 回复此楼
11楼2013-06-25 20:20:15
已阅   回复此楼   关注TA 给TA发消息 送TA红花 TA的回帖

求知者001

荣誉版主 (知名作家)
★
棉铃虫: 金币+1 2013-06-26 10:51:26
You can say that you have something urgent to do,if time allows,you can helf her later.
赞一下 回复此楼
12楼2013-06-26 10:04:58
已阅   回复此楼   关注TA 给TA发消息 送TA红花 TA的回帖

89dreamer

金虫 (正式写手)
★
棉铃虫: 金币+1 2013-06-26 15:31:38
i don't think it is so bad for you just to spit it out, "no" "no""no". no special wit is needed. helping others is virtue, but being yourself is nature, don't let those unnecessary excuses bother you
赞一下 回复此楼
13楼2013-06-26 14:24:56
已阅   回复此楼   关注TA 给TA发消息 送TA红花 TA的回帖

晓露芙蓉

禁虫 (正式写手)
本帖内容被屏蔽
15楼2013-06-30 02:07:53
已阅   回复此楼   关注TA 给TA发消息 送TA红花 TA的回帖

Stare欣

新虫 (小有名气)
★
fungixx: 金币+1, yeah` just let her know the truth~ she will understand~ 2013-07-03 12:30:24
Just tell her the truth,If u cannot finish your job how can u help her,it doesn't matter,she can understand u

[ 发自手机版 http://muchong.com/3g ]
赞一下 回复此楼
16楼2013-06-30 09:15:48
已阅   回复此楼   关注TA 给TA发消息 送TA红花 TA的回帖

刘夜

金虫 (小有名气)
★
棉铃虫: 金币+1 2013-07-02 12:30:00
It should not be too hard for you to tell her that you are busy and have no time to help her~ Good luck to louzhu~

[ 发自手机版 http://muchong.com/3g ]
赞一下 回复此楼
17楼2013-07-01 23:21:27
已阅   回复此楼   关注TA 给TA发消息 送TA红花 TA的回帖

billbier

荣誉版主 (知名作家)
tell her the truth
赞一下 回复此楼
18楼2013-07-02 23:02:10
已阅   回复此楼   关注TA 给TA发消息 送TA红花 TA的回帖

nokiane6

新虫 (小有名气)
if l am in your place、l will clearly say no 。if you,choose another answer、do it well

[ 发自手机版 http://muchong.com/3g ]
赞一下 回复此楼
19楼2013-07-04 21:34:18
已阅   回复此楼   关注TA 给TA发消息 送TA红花 TA的回帖

mac194

铁虫 (职业作家)
★ ★
curton: 金币+2, Remember to take advantage of lab safety, exam schedule 2013-07-18 11:15:10
Quick follow-up:
Remember to take advantage of lab safety, exam schedule,... etc as much as possible.  Let them be your cover.
赞一下 回复此楼
21楼2013-07-05 22:36:53
已阅   回复此楼   关注TA 给TA发消息 送TA红花 TA的回帖

铁观音茶叶

木虫 (文坛精英)
I would tell her my real situation that i dont' have time directly.
赞一下 回复此楼
22楼2013-07-06 06:23:11
已阅   回复此楼   关注TA 给TA发消息 送TA红花 TA的回帖

chaisy_007

金虫 (小有名气)
★ ★
curton: 金币+2, let her know your reason directly, be honest 2013-07-18 11:15:23
let her know your reason directly, be honest, just tell her your problem, i think if she is your sister,she can understand it.
赞一下 回复此楼
23楼2013-07-08 16:28:15
已阅   回复此楼   关注TA 给TA发消息 送TA红花 TA的回帖

lxx0805

新虫 (初入文坛)
★ ★
curton: 金币+2, ,there is no time to help her,and you can give her some suggestion or recommend someone others. 2013-07-18 11:15:31
you can say that I am so busy,there is no time to help her,and you can give her some suggestion or recommend someone others.
赞一下 回复此楼
24楼2013-07-10 09:00:57
已阅   回复此楼   关注TA 给TA发消息 送TA红花 TA的回帖

果断悉尼

铁杆木虫 (知名作家)
★ ★
curton: 金币+2, When you have some trouble to find help from your classmates.If she told you she is so busy that she have no time to help you. 2013-07-18 11:15:48
When you have some trouble to find help from your classmates.If she told you she is so busy that she have no time to help you.
Can you understand her?
赞一下 回复此楼
25楼2013-07-10 09:46:51
已阅   回复此楼   关注TA 给TA发消息 送TA红花 TA的回帖
简单回复
nwxjh2楼
2013-06-25 09:40   回复  
小木虫: 沙发+1，金币+0.5, 恭喜抢个沙发，再给个红包
yingying158814楼
2013-06-26 23:09   回复  
相关版块跳转 我要订阅楼主 棉铃虫 的主题更新
251/1返回列表
普通表情 龙 兔 虎 猫 高级回复 (可上传附件)
信息提示
关闭
请填处理意见
关闭