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棉铃虫

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[交流] how to say no?

There must be something unwilling to come during our daily life,some days ago ,my senior sister apprentice ask me to synthesis some intermediate products for her, but i'm busy these days,i haven't the wit to say no,if you meet something similar to me ,what would you do??
how to say no?
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curton: 回帖置顶 2013-07-18 11:14:49
curton: 金币+5, Most labs will not allow people to work alone because a runaway experiment can be a serious fire hazard 2013-07-18 11:14:58
Most labs will not allow people to work alone because a runaway experiment can be a serious fire hazard
Besides the apprentice should have the decency of making time for her own work.  
If she's willing to accompany you but needs to check her schedule, then you've bought time.  
If she appears unwilling to accommodate you in any way, then you have a perfect reason to back out
People who need help must be accommodative.... "Beggers cannot be choosers."
If you don't want to refuse the apprentice outright, let a co-worker or whoever controls your time do that for you.  That other person is not burdened by friendship.
There... three roundabout ways of saying: "No"
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lysrandy: 金币+2, good idea,give suggestions when she needs. 2013-06-25 14:27:02
maybe you are unwilling to help her, you can say your are so busy that you cannot assit to synthesis some products .you can tell her some methods.let her do it by herself ,if she still have no idea,you may give some suggestions in details .
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棉铃虫: 金币+2 2013-06-25 10:47:04
Honesty is the best policy. Just tell her that you are kept so busy that you cannot spare enough time for this.But try to be polite in yourtone. Say something like: I'm so sorry that I am not be able to help this time as I've been busy with...
maybe next time.....
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棉铃虫: 金币+1 2013-06-25 15:50:44
tell her the turth and say you are sorry for that
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