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I believe myself have the capability to fulfill something pretty good , but have never been able to overcome the fear of speaking to the crowd , even if it is just making a presentation in front of my friends and classmates . When I was a child ,I'm too shy a girl ,fear to speak to the teacher and not good at express myself .Now ,some improvment have been make ,I could communicate with my friends freely as I want ,but when stand in front of any people to say something ,or make some introduction a little formly ,I am still too nervous to speak .It seems that have become one of my nature . I don't like it .I have been try hard to change the situation ,but it won't work. Do you fear of something ? |
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fungixx: 金币+2, thank for your nice words~ yeah we need to overcome what keeps us from moving forward~ i need to make some change, and more brave~ 2013-03-14 14:09:54
winter_north: 回帖置顶 2013-03-16 01:50:54
fungixx: 金币+2, thank for your nice words~ yeah we need to overcome what keeps us from moving forward~ i need to make some change, and more brave~ 2013-03-14 14:09:54
winter_north: 回帖置顶 2013-03-16 01:50:54
| I think that sometimes we need to challenge ourselves,nomatter how difficult the fear is.In some cases,you can find that our inner fear is just a little thing which we can overcome completely. |
21楼2013-03-14 14:07:34
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22楼2013-03-14 14:10:42
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winter_north: 金币+2, Great advice! 2013-03-16 01:47:57
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winter_north: 金币+2, Great advice! 2013-03-16 01:47:57
winter_north: 回帖置顶 2013-03-16 01:51:09
I have the some stiuation of you.i think speak to the mirror is a effect way to improve yourself.besides, when you feel nervous before a speech,you can try to push the wall,it's really usefully.you can overcome it.Good luck to you! |
28楼2013-03-15 10:16:02
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winter_north: 金币+5, Thank you for your advice, I think this will work for many people. 2013-03-16 01:48:36
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winter_north: 金币+5, Thank you for your advice, I think this will work for many people. 2013-03-16 01:48:36
winter_north: 回帖置顶 2013-03-16 01:48:42
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some tips may help: 1. keep smile while doing the presentation. (even if it is fake,better from your heart) 2. looking into others' eyes while succeeding to offer opt 1.(I think you will be repaid the smile from other crews,then increase the confidence.) 3. Give yourself some psychological hints:the persons in the team are thirsty to hear your points and they never harm you inspite of your faults. hope to help |
29楼2013-03-15 10:30:57
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winter_north: 金币+4, Yes. I also think, to give a presentation, means to tell something you know to some people who do not know. So, try to explain and tell as clearly as you can. And, before the presentation, you should be very familiar with what you will talk with. Look at the eyes of the audience, to detemine how you should do it. 2013-03-16 01:50:36
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winter_north: 金币+4, Yes. I also think, to give a presentation, means to tell something you know to some people who do not know. So, try to explain and tell as clearly as you can. And, before the presentation, you should be very familiar with what you will talk with. Look at the eyes of the audience, to detemine how you should do it. 2013-03-16 01:50:36
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I think the best way for you to overcome such fear is to try as many as possible. When you provide presentation more, you will be accustomed to this way and fear or pudency would leave you. Besides, every time before your presentation, just tell yourself you can do it and you are the best. Self-suggestion is a beneficial way to improve your confidence. |
30楼2013-03-15 10:50:08
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winter_north: 金币+2, Yes, more practice will help, and this is an essential skill in this world. 2013-03-16 01:47:17
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winter_north: 金币+2, Yes, more practice will help, and this is an essential skill in this world. 2013-03-16 01:47:17
winter_north: 回帖置顶 2013-03-16 01:50:47
| Well, I totally understand your problem. I used to get nervous when speaking in front of the audience. But through lots of practice, I ended up overcoming it. I suggest you grasp every opportunity to practise your speech skills and it will work out some time. |
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Floral-Cai: 回帖置顶 2013-03-16 12:21:33
thanks for your good advices  @信陵君魏 @chxmright @一首简单的歌 @三也啦 @米虫大小姐 @xlm_patrick @Overseas_E @自然秋实 @臣静致远 @sxiaodong @zailushangli @winter_north |
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fungixx: 金币+2, i agree with you~ it\'s hard to make the first step~ 2013-03-14 13:45:20
fungixx: 金币+2, i agree with you~ it\'s hard to make the first step~ 2013-03-14 13:45:20
| there is no suprising that every one has his or her own inner fear. the matter is that how can you overcome it, just try to do a bite everytime, then you will make through it, you will laugh at what you have feared for at that time. so just move on, things gona change. |
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26楼2013-03-15 00:16:29
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winter_north: 金币+2, Really? It seems you need more skills. Come on! 2013-03-16 01:52:24
winter_north: 金币+2, Really? It seems you need more skills. Come on! 2013-03-16 01:52:24
 i must admit every time when i give a presentation in front of many people, i am very very nervous,  i try to calm down, but it never works  maybe i need more practice, and maybe i should more brave~  |
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fungixx: 金币+5, that\'s very nice of you` thank for your sharing~ 2013-03-14 13:46:09
fungixx: 金币+5, that\'s very nice of you` thank for your sharing~ 2013-03-14 13:46:09
| yeah,no one is perfect.everyone has his fear.what i fear is like yours,but not exactually.i fear speaking in the front of the people i like and every time i will be red in the face obviously.i try hard not to be that but unsuccessful. for a long time , i avoid the situation ,and even avoid meeting the perpson i like .gradually i find it the mentality we have cause this problem .so just do not think too much when you do it and you willl overcome that . i can and i think you can too. |
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fungixx: 金币+5, thanks for your sharing~ i also learn much from your words~ enjoy yourself here` 2013-03-14 13:47:02
fungixx: 金币+5, thanks for your sharing~ i also learn much from your words~ enjoy yourself here` 2013-03-14 13:47:02
| From my perspective,at the first stage ,you should learn how to be confident ,just think you can do it very well. At the second stage, learn how to do a outgoing girl,just often chatting with your classmate or co-workers,friends and your relatives. after many tries,you will find that you have be a outgoing girl.At the last stage,before you standing in front of the crowd,tell yourself you are very nervous,you are very nervous, and do a deep breathing.OK, please remember you are the leading role.You are the lord of yourself. haha... don't be shy. |
8楼2013-03-13 09:54:00
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fungixx: 金币+2, wish you can make a great change in the near future~ 2013-03-14 13:47:36
fungixx: 金币+2, wish you can make a great change in the near future~ 2013-03-14 13:47:36
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I have thesame fear with you.A few days ago,l make some try to change this,for example,read some famous community book,make sef introduce before mirror,but i didnot persist.If youhave another ways tochange, please tell me,thankyou. [ 发自手机版 http://muchong.com/3g ] |
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