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Jessica: Yeah, I guess I should be more con siderate.

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put myself in her shoes.
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there is a more formal term referring to this action: Empathy

Definition is cited from Oxford Online Dictionary:

Empathy     noun.
the ability to understand and share the feelings of another.
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