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Jessica: I AM angry! One of my friend said she's going to come visit me, but she canceled her trip AT THE LAST MINUTE! I've saved all my weekend for her!

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Jessica: She said a very important client is coming to town over the weekend, and she got the opportunity to accompany them.

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Jessica: Yeah, I guess I should be more con siderate.

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YM: Ô­À´ÊÇÕâÑù£¡Yes, your friend's situation strikes a chord with me!

Jessica: You know, Yumiao, I think you are right. I will call her and apologize for overreacting, and I will wish her good luck!

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there is a more formal term referring to this action: Empathy

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Empathy     noun.
the ability to understand and share the feelings of another.
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