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the dragon boat festival day is coming, but my feeling is more and more bad due to i have to make a decision about my job after the festival. i do not have the passion to celebrate this festival. i miss my girl friend who live in CD, and l live in SH. whether i will continue to work in SH is the bigget problem i need to consider seriously. SH is a bueatiful city aroud china, even in the world, those want to work in the city want to obtain more opportunities of success.earning more money and having a good life are their tagets. but the priece of house is also the highest than other cities. these is the biggest difficult and is also a reality problem. if i want to continue to work in the city, my girl friend have to quit her job in CD and find another new job in SH. thsi is no our bigger problem, but the life pressure increases. sometime i think maybe i will work well in CD also, the life pressure is fewer, we will have a high quanlity life, even we also do not have much money to buy a house in CD what should i do?i am not a dreamer, i need the power to overcome the difficult. |
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witch_girl(金币+5, ESEPI+1): thanks very much for your opinion~ from your words here, we know you are considerate, responsible and optimistic. nice! best wishes to you too~~:tiger28::tiger28: 2011-06-03 17:29:55
witch_girl(金币+5, ESEPI+1): thanks very much for your opinion~ from your words here, we know you are considerate, responsible and optimistic. nice! best wishes to you too~~:tiger28::tiger28: 2011-06-03 17:29:55
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Job,work place and family, those are big and real problems. And what's more serious, we can do nothing when facing those problems. Just like what you said，SH is a big and colourful city，which provides us so many opportunities. But at the same time, it disappointed us a lot. The price of the house is much higher. The pressure we have to undertake is heavier. The rhythm of life is so fast, especially for young guys. The biggest problem is if you stay here, your girlfriend will have to find another new job in SH. It is not so easy for a girl i believe. So why don't you quit your job in SH and find a new one in CD? As for you, i think leaving SH doesn't mean give up many opportunities. Because we can find opportunities everywhere. Besides, and the most important is, your life pressure will decrease. I think the style of life and our feeling of life are what we should pay more attention to. Anyway, this is just my opinion.  As a bystander, i just want to tell you that if i were you, i will choose an easy life, probably without much pressure and passion...So best wishes...  |
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lppv(金币+5): in front of the big problems, we should think well about it. different decisions , different fates. 2011-06-03 10:52:01
xuanxuankaoyan(ESEPI+1): good suggestions and comment response~ I think it deserves an ESEPI. You did a very good job~ 2011-06-03 11:33:25
lppv(金币+5): in front of the big problems, we should think well about it. different decisions , different fates. 2011-06-03 10:52:01
xuanxuankaoyan(ESEPI+1): good suggestions and comment response~ I think it deserves an ESEPI. You did a very good job~ 2011-06-03 11:33:25
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Job, workplace, house and such are problems for most of us. We may not have to worry about this now. It's just a matter of time however. We will have to face them. Everyone may make different decisions, that really depends, a lot of factors to take into account. It needs considerate and systematic thinking. We all have to work and have a family, such questions are just unavoidable ahead of us. You make the right decision, then you will be the winner of life, otherwise you will be living in regret for the rest of life, or at least affected by your once reckless decision. We have grown up and have to learn to assume such responsibility now. So think twice and consult as many people as possible before we make the final decision. As for your case, SH is really a dream place for many people. It's inviting but competitive at the same time. You will have to work harder and endure more pressure as before if you both move there. Of course, if you have a perfect job there, that shouldn't be a big problem for you. Hope you will find the best way out.  |
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