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[交流] Give me the power

the dragon boat festival day is coming, but my feeling is more and more bad due to i have to make a decision about my job after the festival. i do not have the passion to celebrate this festival. i miss my girl friend who live in CD, and l live in SH. whether i will continue to work in SH is the bigget problem i need to consider seriously.
SH is a bueatiful city aroud china, even in the world, those want to work in the city want to obtain more opportunities of success.earning more money and having a good life are their tagets. but the priece of house is also the  highest than other cities. these is the biggest difficult and is also a reality problem.
if i want to continue to work in the city, my girl friend have to quit her job in CD and find another new job in SH. thsi is no our bigger problem, but the life pressure increases. sometime i think maybe i will work well in CD also, the life pressure is fewer, we will have a high quanlity life, even we also do not have much money to buy a house in CD
what should i do?i am not a  dreamer, i need the power to overcome the difficult.
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it's indeed a big problem. i wish you can handle it well. maybe let yourself relax may help you find out a good solution.
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lppv(金币+1): thank you for your advice. welcome to english cafe. 2011-06-03 10:41:05
it's indeed a big problem. i wish you can handle it well. maybe let yourself relax may help you find out a good solution.
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lppv(金币+5): in front of the big problems, we should think well about it. different decisions , different fates. 2011-06-03 10:52:01
xuanxuankaoyan(ESEPI+1): good suggestions and comment response~ I think it deserves an ESEPI. You did a very good job~ 2011-06-03 11:33:25
    Job, workplace, house and such are problems for most of us. We may not have to worry about this now. It's just a matter of time however. We will have to face them. Everyone may make different decisions, that really depends, a lot of factors to take into account. It needs considerate and systematic thinking. We all have to work and have a family, such questions are just unavoidable ahead of us. You make the right decision, then you will be the winner of life, otherwise you will be living in regret for the rest of life, or at least affected by your once reckless decision. We have grown up and have to learn to assume such responsibility now. So think twice and consult as many people as possible before we make the final decision.

    As for your case, SH is really a dream place for many people. It's inviting but competitive at the same time. You will have to work harder and endure more pressure as before if you both move there. Of course, if you have a perfect job there, that shouldn't be a big problem for you.

    Hope you will find the best way out.
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Originally posted by yz1988 at 2011-06-03 10:34:31:
it's indeed a big problem. i wish you can handle it well. maybe let yourself relax may help you find out a good solution.

Thank you very much, and your good advices. i am thinking what is the really need, maybe that can help me make the good decision
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