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the dragon boat festival day is coming, but my feeling is more and more bad due to i have to make a decision about my job after the festival. i do not have the passion to celebrate this festival. i miss my girl friend who live in CD, and l live in SH. whether i will continue to work in SH is the bigget problem i need to consider seriously. SH is a bueatiful city aroud china, even in the world, those want to work in the city want to obtain more opportunities of success.earning more money and having a good life are their tagets. but the priece of house is also the highest than other cities. these is the biggest difficult and is also a reality problem. if i want to continue to work in the city, my girl friend have to quit her job in CD and find another new job in SH. thsi is no our bigger problem, but the life pressure increases. sometime i think maybe i will work well in CD also, the life pressure is fewer, we will have a high quanlity life, even we also do not have much money to buy a house in CD what should i do?i am not a dreamer, i need the power to overcome the difficult. |
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witch_girl(金币+5, ESEPI+1): thank you very much! I appriciate your words, especially for "God won't give you all the good to you" and "everyone shares the same experience with you". thank you again~:tiger28::tiger28: 2011-06-03 17:22:40
witch_girl(金币+5, ESEPI+1): thank you very much! I appriciate your words, especially for "God won't give you all the good to you" and "everyone shares the same experience with you". thank you again~:tiger28::tiger28: 2011-06-03 17:22:40
From the viewpoint of an experienced sister, your problem about the balance between work and family is really a current social problem, which most of your peers have to face to. My suggestion to you, is to think about the situations of you, your GF, and mutal families comprehensively. You know, the God won't give you all the good to you, so how to deal with different kinds of problems/choices is the required course in our life. Everyone shares the same experience with you. So, don't be so worried, everything will be fine,  .I have a satisfied family. And my definition to "What is a good family"is, both you couple should own good jobs. The biggest investment, the house, is a really headache. Mabye, you are so excellent to afford it. But, I think, it's unfair for you and your couple should strive for your family together. I can't make a decision for you, but, I think, the suggestion of your GF is the most important suggestion, which you should think about carefully. Good luck! |
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lppv(金币+5): in front of the big problems, we should think well about it. different decisions , different fates. 2011-06-03 10:52:01
xuanxuankaoyan(ESEPI+1): good suggestions and comment response~ I think it deserves an ESEPI. You did a very good job~ 2011-06-03 11:33:25
lppv(金币+5): in front of the big problems, we should think well about it. different decisions , different fates. 2011-06-03 10:52:01
xuanxuankaoyan(ESEPI+1): good suggestions and comment response~ I think it deserves an ESEPI. You did a very good job~ 2011-06-03 11:33:25
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Job, workplace, house and such are problems for most of us. We may not have to worry about this now. It's just a matter of time however. We will have to face them. Everyone may make different decisions, that really depends, a lot of factors to take into account. It needs considerate and systematic thinking. We all have to work and have a family, such questions are just unavoidable ahead of us. You make the right decision, then you will be the winner of life, otherwise you will be living in regret for the rest of life, or at least affected by your once reckless decision. We have grown up and have to learn to assume such responsibility now. So think twice and consult as many people as possible before we make the final decision. As for your case, SH is really a dream place for many people. It's inviting but competitive at the same time. You will have to work harder and endure more pressure as before if you both move there. Of course, if you have a perfect job there, that shouldn't be a big problem for you. Hope you will find the best way out.  |
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