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lex_2002

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lppv(金币+1):hehe, right, money is flowing from here to there.welcome. 2011-01-12 20:10:42
don't worry, you'll have the money back when you get married
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lex_2002

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but, becareful of the inflation, it's a serious issue
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奥拓哥

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lppv(金币+1):but it seems she has determined to give as much as others.thank you for your kind advice. 2011-01-12 20:51:14
兰蝴蝶(金币+1):agree with you~ 2011-01-13 11:35:11
you would better send your red packet according your present ability i think.
we are all students,it means that we have to depend on our parents for living,and we still have not ability to earn money.so you should express your
intention properly.now that your collegue is also a student,he will comprehend
your condition.
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lppv(金币+1):then, you won't work for trouble,will you?:D 2011-01-12 20:53:04
money is the source of trouble.
so don't give too much trouble to someone you really care.


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Originally posted by liufawen at 2011-01-12 20:55:42:
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darling1210

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in my opinion ,you should follow your ability~
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yanglinast

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Originally posted by lppv at 2011-01-12 19:12:18:
to a student, 600yuan is a large number, i am not able to afford it.
i do agree with you, it should be a form to show sincere wishes and congratulations, should not be a matter of the number of mo ...

I am sure they will, if they are really good friends to you.
You don't have to give them much money for the conventional thing, you should do what you can do, that is all and that is ok.
I remember that when I got married last year I told some of my best friend still in universityto give me no money or 100 yuan. It's the most important thing they come to the wedding party, not the money they have to give to me.
I think as your good friend in the same lab, they will understand. And to yourself you try you best, so there's nothing to worry about.

So what do you think?
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yanglinast

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Originally posted by lex_2002 at 2011-01-12 20:04:15:
don't worry, you'll have the money back when you get married

sometimes, you will not!
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