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[交流] 【Discussion】What are we living for?



To be a valuable person is well known for everyone, but little could get it.


Fact 1: 13 years ago, her husband died from emergency, leaving her and her 7 years old heavily ill son. They rented a small room, just 9m2, and the only two electric appliances were electric baker and a white lighter. During the toughest 3 years, she almost ate sweet potato for meals, and lighted wax lighter.

Fact 2: It is this poor single mother that gets a honor as “blood-Donator mother”. For 13 years, she insisted on working for blood-giving station, and have donated blood 37 times, amounting to 16 thousand milliliters.


A saying from her”I don’t know whose body where my blood is running, but I know it can save their life.”
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fangye0413(金币+4):your future is so beautiful~ 2010-12-11 15:28:50
xuanxuankaoyan(金币+2):Future depends on your own , let's cheer up! we need some slow-down time, and think something essential to our futuer doings. 2010-12-11 15:29:42
fangye0413(ESEPI+1):I think I should give you one SEEPI 2010-12-11 15:29:45
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三更雨~(金币+4):WOW, so good!:tiger37::tiger29::tiger28:I learn a lesson 2010-12-11 17:03:33
xuanxuankaoyan(金币+1, ESEPI+1):good points, I know what you say, think twice before you act is right, but sometimes the thinking process takes you forward and backward, tough to make a decision, whereas do it just following your heart, maybe it is easy to go through it, that is also to say that simple is best. 2010-12-11 23:07:58
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Originally posted by xuanxuankaoyan at 2010-12-11 15:27:03:
life leaves us little time to think about that, but it is really important.

in fact, the reason is not about time~~
just since I think the answer will not be got by thinking,
but by what we do and graduately accumulatimg with time~~
and sometimes, if we can't get the answer after a long time's thought,
we should realize: maybe the point is not about questions itself,
but the process of solving it by ourselves~~
so, the more important thing is that we should find out what should do,
and do it.
as for what should we do, xiachong said do what you like
for the puzzle caused by these questions, I appreciate the saying:
Still waters run deep(大智若愚) and sometimes, it's valuable to be confused
sometimes,it's possible that to be too smart is not a bettet choice

as for the mother you mentioned, I think she is great

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fangye0413(金币+4, ESEPI+1):good,I always appreciate sunshine ìdea~morning~ 2010-12-12 06:54:13
it is said that: we eat to live, but not live to eat. although the mother ate unhealth food, she had health mind. she donored blood to save others's life, that made her good fame.
everyone is the architect of his own fortune.to me,misfortunes are helpful and instructive. when my mother got a severe disease when i was in high school, i decided to enter the medical university. since my family is not rich,and we spend all money to cure my mother even borrowed a lot of money from relatives, i chose to enroll in military university which is free for study. after rain comes sunshine.
my mother gave life to me,and raised me hardly.so i partly live for her, i don't let her down for me. as i will be a doctor, i also live for the health of patients.
i also keep the oath of a commie in mind: serve for the people
of course ,i live for myself to make a better life, so that my family will have a better life.
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xuanxuankaoyan(金币+5, ESEPI+1):as you say, it is really a complicated question for our human beings. reationally and emotionally, it is difficults. Maybe just one reason for living, it is enough for one whole life. 2010-12-14 16:42:10
To be or not to be, that's a question! Occationly, the complicated world confused us and we almost lost the heart to go forward. Living for nothing may be the final excuse to escape. As a matter of fact, from the time we born down to the world, we started to suffer and save our life. That's why so human beings never ever are comfortable with their lives and bear so much complaints to the society though the civilization is developing all the time. As an emotional animal, the distiction determines those like you and me should take more responsibility to be dedicated. What we are living for is not what matters most, the most urgent thing is to think why it is us living in the world not others instead!
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xuanxuankaoyan(金币+5, ESEPI+1):different person has his own attitude to life, that is maybe from different experience of their own, which makes the one here today. whereas there is a law inside the nature, which rules the way going on as it does. for human beings, we can not decide where we can be from, but we can fight for the life of our own. as you said, Destiny is sometimes cruel but real. that is absolutely right. and maybe because of this, afterwords we know what kind of life could be valuable. 2010-12-24 16:21:52
This is life. Just like all kinds of creatures living on the earth. Someone lead a luxurious life, but quit a few people are still leading a miserable life. A video shown on Yunnan TV yesterday tell us a story about a group of poor lions, they can’t find any esculents for a long time. In order to support herself and her children’s and grandchildren’s life, she alone intrude into the territory blow to another group of lions for searching foods, at last, she back with an heavily injured body. Veterinary on the prairies in North Africa tried their best to save her life, but they can’t. The fittest survives the natural selection. Destiny is sometimes cruel but real.
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xuanxuankaoyan(金币+5, ESEPI+1): I think at least now, you know a lot about life, though(or 'after' would be better) many things happened to you. I think whatever you are doing, like it or not, do something meaningful, which is a kind of consolation in our heart. 2011-06-22 18:29:17
Before I started my college life, My father told me: There are three things you have to learn in the college. Learn how to be health, how to study, and how to be a man.
    Unfortunately, I lost everything in those four years, even lost myself. I was crazy about the comuter game for two years, fell in love with a boy for the rest two years. I spent little time in my study. I always told to myself everything will pass, and everything will be fine. That was so stupid.
    Now I can understand my father's word, I don't know what are we living for, but I know we choce to study for the better life and future. Living in this competitive society we have to take the responsibility of ouuselves, our family, and the country. Only few person can decide to do the things they really enjoiy, most of us, this right are deprived by the compitition.
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winter_north: 金币+10, ESEPI+1, Yes, I agree with you, try to protect the environment, try to love our familes, and try to help the poor. 2012-10-22 23:46:27
Living means nothing unless you find your destiny.

Eye open, eat and drink, study or work, spend leisure hours having fun, eat and drink more, wash and sleep, those are regular daily life and it would be extremely boring if continue endlessly.

But you can do nothing if your body cannot move because of hungry, and therefore we must fulfill the basic needs first, locate resources that support survival.

When there is room, we should study in field of own interest to improve our knownledge and get prepared to help the society, regardless of return, and to appoarch peak of the pyramid, we should promote the same thinking to other people who has similar abilities and thus a near perfect society will be maintained.

We should aim for:-
- a green planet, power saving should be our infinite task, petrolium resources are limited, besides they are not environment friendly, unnecessary wastage of planet resources will end up in big disasters to our step generation
- charity to the poors, the foundation of society is people, unfortunately most of the people living in unwanted poor situation and children from family in the range will turn into gangsters without proper education and love, they will become the scourge
- morale education, besides what we learn from advanced countries the technologies of modern world, we should not forget the treasure from our ancients and that is the morale education, that should be strengthen and spread to every level of the society

Make our lives meaningful and find our eagle heart and burn the flame brightly
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