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Source: Global Times [08:23 November 12 2010]

A 28-year-old man holds up a notice in a Hangzhou metro station that reads: "I want to dao chamen. I will be faithful to my in-laws as well as my wife, protect and stay with them for the rest of my life." He says he comes from Shaoxin, a water town in Zhejiang Province, and graduated from a university in Beijing four years ago.


Dao chamen means a man marrying into and living with the bride's family. An ancient traditional Chinese custom, it offers an alternative mode of marriage to the dominant male kinship structure.
In imperial China when parents had no male descendant, they would arrange a marriage for their daughter by calling the husband to come and live with them.
The husband was usually too poor to bring a dowry to the wife's family and so needed to take his wife's surname and perform certain duties as a son.
When the couple had children, the eldest son is assigned to the wife's father's ancestral line and bears his surname.

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xuanxuankaoyan(½ð±Ò+4):as you proved, I completely agree with you, you are absolutely right. 2010-11-16 11:17:07
to the moderate:

"I don't agree with what you say, but I will defend to the death for your right to say it"
so, what I want to say is that:I don't agree with it, nor reject  intensely.

and I ever said, the way is considerable, why he choose this way, to stand in the street where people come and go?
His action seems to sell himself, I dislike this way.

if you want to choose Dao chamen, you may fall in love with a good girl, and let things come very naturally, nor this bad way.
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lxuyan(½ð±Ò+1):There are plenty of sofas here~~See you next time~~Good luck:tiger29::tiger28::tiger06: 2010-11-12 20:24:05
I am so glad that i don't konw what should i say..

Because ,this is my first sofa in English Cafe

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xuanxuankaoyan(½ð±Ò+1):it is special for man 2010-11-12 17:32:12
I think ti si a very interesting  customs ,butsome mates maybe feel pressure on that custom
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