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[交流] 【Share】Buying Mr Right

Source: Global Times [08:23 November 12 2010]

A 28-year-old man holds up a notice in a Hangzhou metro station that reads: "I want to dao chamen. I will be faithful to my in-laws as well as my wife, protect and stay with them for the rest of my life." He says he comes from Shaoxin, a water town in Zhejiang Province, and graduated from a university in Beijing four years ago.


Dao chamen means a man marrying into and living with the bride's family. An ancient traditional Chinese custom, it offers an alternative mode of marriage to the dominant male kinship structure.
In imperial China when parents had no male descendant, they would arrange a marriage for their daughter by calling the husband to come and live with them.
The husband was usually too poor to bring a dowry to the wife's family and so needed to take his wife's surname and perform certain duties as a son.
When the couple had children, the eldest son is assigned to the wife's father's ancestral line and bears his surname.

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What the social will be?
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15楼2010-11-16 09:43:51
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xuanxuankaoyan(金币+1):so you seemly agree the the way of marriage pursuing. and i know you have a little brother, if he does the same thing like that,what would you do? just a suppose. 2010-11-16 11:02:46
There is nothing wrong with  Dao chamen,
but the way is considerable
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16楼2010-11-16 09:45:05
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Originally posted by 打瞌睡的糖 at 2010-11-16 10:19:22:



Can you accept an DAOCHAMEN husband

No.
and there is no necessary.
in our town, people who just have daughters may consider this way.
安于一隅,不发光也不落灰。
18楼2010-11-16 10:23:26
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Originally posted by 打瞌睡的糖 at 2010-11-16 10:30:26:


SO,you have a brother,little or old?

little brother
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21楼2010-11-16 10:31:45
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Originally posted by 打瞌睡的糖 at 2010-11-16 10:34:45:


I learned that old sister was tend to be more sensible


may I consider this is a praise for me, or the opposite one?
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23楼2010-11-16 10:38:41
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Originally posted by 打瞌睡的糖 at 2010-11-16 10:42:56:


How can I know the answer ! It's depends on what's kind sister you want to be

not the best, but better
I think I .
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25楼2010-11-16 10:45:55
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Originally posted by 打瞌睡的糖 at 2010-11-16 10:46:43:


Is your little brother a colledge student?

yes, he is. and he will graduate from school next year.
the same as me.
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Originally posted by 打瞌睡的糖 at 2010-11-16 10:50:21:


ARE YOU IN THE SAME UNIVERSITY

No。
He is in "Xi an", yang rou pao mo
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30楼2010-11-16 10:53:59
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Originally posted by 打瞌睡的糖 at 2010-11-16 10:58:40:


xian jiao tong ?

I LOVE that when I was 16 years old.

I never get a chance to eat it.
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32楼2010-11-16 11:01:39
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Originally posted by 打瞌睡的糖 at 2010-11-16 10:58:40:


xian jiao tong ?

I LOVE that when I was 16 years old.

it's not the University.
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