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xuanxuankaoyan

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[交流] 【Discussion】what will you do at that moment?

i was visited to take part in a dinner by that girl, one of my labmates. when we were at the dinner table, the girl and his boyfriend quarreled about something i can't even remember at that time, maybe because i was paying my attention to the delicious dishes. (they often quarrel about little things i think it is easy to deal with. ) i did not know what i should do, continue to eat or not? what a big disturbing senario. Finally i stopped eating, i had to, the quarrel was aggravated to a fight. i was more upset, and going to leave. i said'Woo, i am full enough, i want to go now, so you continue.'
what would you do if you are in such a condition, guys?
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If you are friends, you can try to stop them from fighting each other
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xuanxuankaoyan(金币+2):it is hard to say. i just don't want ot worse the condition. it is like a couple quarrel, if another one comes in, he could be the object of shotting. 2010-09-14 11:52:41
i think you dealed with it uncorrectly.since you had been invited to dine with them,you  are one of the close friends of them absolutely.when they were quarreling for trivial matters,you shoud have coordinate with them and help them
resolve it rather than dodge. this is only my own view above,thanks.
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xuanxuankaoyan(金币+2):good idea! 2010-09-14 14:56:19
i got an idea, that is u pretend to receive an emergent call (from your superviser or someone else), they need u, so u get the chance to fly for ur life. u can play some rings to let them believe that there comes a call. It is easy and useful.
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兰蝴蝶(金币+3):thank you for your suggestion~~ 2010-09-14 13:54:16
This kind of thing never occured on me. But I think you should say something to let them calm down. If I were you, I would have told them that I would not continue my meal if they kept on quarrelling. If the cause of quarrelling was somehow related with your caring about one dish, you would not have gone away. In that case, you would have order another one at once and told to them that you would treat them for the meal.
Eating with them made you unhappy. If I were you, I would not eat out with them since then.  Maybe I will talk with them as usual when I meet them on the campus.
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xuanxuankaoyan(金币+1):yep, i seemly am a shy boy. 2010-09-14 14:57:54
i think you sometimes are lacking  of some basic social communication skills！  
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If they are my good friends, I think I could say songthing that enabled them to stop the quarrelling.
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兰蝴蝶(金币+1):thank you for your participation~~ 2010-09-14 18:18:46
It's really embarrassing situation. I don't think it's polite for the couple to quarrel in public. If I were you, I'll try to let them calm down and have a talk calmly. That's enough. Don't let you get into the trouble as a judge.
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