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【Discussion】【Activity】weekly topic——Several questions about marriage
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三更雨~(金币+5, ESEPI+1):thank you for your comments 2010-09-06 14:08:20
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| The discussion on the time when we will get married is an extremely interesting topic. The number of people talking about their personal plan has been increasing. Obviously, most people in the world are married or will get married in the future. However, their marriage age varies with their nationalities, cultures, laws and genders. In the main land of our country, the marriageable age permitted legally is 22 for male and 20 for female, respectively. In Hong Kong, the marriageable age defined by law is 21 for male and 16 for female, and the marriage has to subject to parents content. In general laws of different countries only define the lowest permitable age for marriage, but they do not give the higest permitable marriage age. For most of postgraduate students, their ages are over the lowest permitable marriage age. Some census shows that the actual marriage ages for young people in cities are older 8 or 10 ages than the age defined by law. The fact standing behind the data may reveal the working pressure which young people are facing to. To get a good work, we have to spend so many years studying advanced knowledge in universities or academic institute, bachalor, master and PhD. We possess advanced technology or knowledge, and we are not too young, but we are so poor that we can not afford a house. I do not know if the average of actual marriage age is proportional to the average of the house price. In spite of these, I think the age of 35 is the upper limit for me to get married. The ideal age to get married is between 25 and 30. |
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xia_chong(金币+5, ESEPI+1):Thanks for sharing your opinion! Best wishes for your family! O(∩_∩)O~ 2010-10-20 13:35:20
xia_chong(金币+5, ESEPI+1):Thanks for sharing your opinion! Best wishes for your family! O(∩_∩)O~ 2010-10-20 13:35:20
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i am a married man withr three-year-matrimony, so i thinnk i could talk about some viewpoints with this topic.at first,i will tell you conscientiously that wedding is far beyond your imagination ,which is a factual thing but not romantic one.of course it should be admitted that many different romantic thing ought to be made in marriage. when you are single,you may dominate your time,your money,your leisure sports basing your considerations or convenience.but once you step into the palace of marriage,many things or plans will beyond your choose,before you do many things,you must tate into accout your wife,your baby or other family number.so you life will become another condition rather than the one when you are single. then,i will refer to the age of wedding.different people have different situations.when you are in a small town with little job pressure and good economic condition,you could marriage earlier,maby 22-25 is the desirable age. while if you study of work in a metropolis without any economic surpport from parents, ,probably you often face different tension coming from house,job and other trivial,so you have to postpone your wedding even the notion of falling in love with the person in your heart.maybe you will make a wedding over 26 even 30 year old i suppose. they are only my perspective,hoping discuss with you sincerely! |
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witch_girl(金币+5, ESEPI+1): you described a very good experience~~ I appreciate it. it reminds me a saying: "In death or life (we are) separated and far apart; With you I made an agreement: I grasped your hand, Together with you I was to grow old. " :tiger28::tiger28: 2011-05-26 19:24:48
witch_girl(金币+5, ESEPI+1): you described a very good experience~~ I appreciate it. it reminds me a saying: "In death or life (we are) separated and far apart; With you I made an agreement: I grasped your hand, Together with you I was to grow old. " :tiger28::tiger28: 2011-05-26 19:24:48
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I have not married，and have no experience about it. I think... Marriage is most important in one’s whole life.It is not only one person’s duty，but also two persons‘ happiness.One encounters his or her another half suddenly.They fall in love with each other，and finally get married. In the process，they must experience a lot，sour，sweet，pain and pungency.They hold on ultimately，and they get married. From now，they begin another experience on the life journey till they turn very very old.One day in the future，when walking on the road under the sunset shine，they know they have gained much.Everything they experience together have formed pieces of their happiness and love. I think this is really love.Maybe，romance exists in our oral life.  |
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