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[交流] 【Discussion】【Activity】weekly topic——Several questions about marriage

    



Parents want us to get marry early. But now, "as people wait longer and longer to marry, the definition of what's too old keeps changing."

What is the Right Age to Get Married?

If single,never  frown ,   even  when you are sad , because you never know who is falling in love with your smile.

When do you plan to get married?
This year next yearsometime never?

How did/will you propose to your wife/GF ?

Did/Will you get down on one knee?


So how does a proposal-minded man cope?




Wedding is not consummation of love but only the beginning!
Some people say that love is romantic while marriage is realistic, happy marriage needs solid material as the basis. Well, such is life, in which simpleness and complexity go together, and so do happiness and sadness.
Sometimes, how can you have him/her? Even with his/her thousands and his/her houses, can you dispose of yourself without affection?


Please keep in mind that romance is an important element of marriage, and marriage is not a romantic end.The  romantic marriage  means  aging  all the way   with  you  and  picking up  bits  and  pieces  of  joy  for  as  to talk  about  at  length  when  we  are  too  old  to walk .The foundation of a good marriage is mutual trust. When you fight for your marriage, you both win.

            





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I think 27 is a good alternative. 30 is a little late, because I want a girl baby at 30.
Godhelpsthosewhohelpthemselves!
2楼2010-08-25 08:59:23
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xia_chong(金币+5):Good opinion! Bless you! 2010-08-25 21:53:23
I don't know when I want to marry,  I have not thought of  marrige in recent years, In fact it makes me feel a little flustered.
At the same time I will not have a baby, until I own the responsibility that fully prepared for being a good mother.

In this summer, I attended my best friend's wedding party. During the wedding, I was deely moved, I think my friend is really happy, she has a good husband who loves her very much. Bless them.

I remenber one sentence, once I hold your hand, I will be with you until we died.
Maybe marrige is just a kind of form, but it is the most wonderful momento in our whole life.

Hope everyone to be happy.
3楼2010-08-25 21:05:36
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I'm married.
漂亮而引人注目的东西不一定都善良,但善良的东西总是漂亮的。
4楼2010-08-30 12:14:42
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I wanted to get married and have a baby at an early age,but it is not early already.
5楼2010-08-30 12:52:15
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marriage that is too faraway from me
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alredy married!
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三更雨~(金币+1):May you happy. 2010-08-30 16:31:59
I've fallen in love with my boyfriend since several months ago. Now it's so sweet. Sometimes I can't help thinking about our marriage in the future. Maybe it's a little early. After all, we are both students now. But love leads to marriage -- I always think so.
Well, about the age of marriage --- I think 27 is my plan. Then I can have a baby before 30, aha...
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Originally posted by 1043109135 at 2010-08-30 12:52:15:
I wanted to get married and have a baby at an early age,but it is not early already.

Come on, hehe...bless you a happy life, a good husband and a lovely baby.
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Originally posted by 纯表无罪 at 2010-08-30 12:14:42:


I'm married.

Then you can say something about your marriage, and I think that would be different from others who have not got married.
10楼2010-08-30 16:46:34
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