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三更雨~(金币+5, ESEPI+1):thank you for your comments 2010-09-06 14:08:20
The discussion on the time when we will get married is an extremely interesting topic. The number of people talking about their personal plan has been increasing. Obviously, most people in the world are married or will get married in the future. However, their marriage age varies with their nationalities, cultures, laws and genders. In the main land of our country, the marriageable age permitted legally is 22 for male and 20 for female, respectively. In Hong Kong, the marriageable age defined by law is 21 for male and 16 for female, and the marriage has to subject to parents content. In general laws of different countries only define the lowest permitable age for marriage, but they do not give the higest permitable marriage age. For most of postgraduate students, their ages are over the lowest permitable marriage age. Some census shows that the actual marriage ages for young people in cities are older 8 or 10 ages than the age defined by law. The fact standing behind the data may reveal the working pressure which young people are facing to. To get a good work, we have to spend so many years studying advanced knowledge in universities or academic institute, bachalor, master and PhD. We possess advanced technology or knowledge, and we are not too young, but we are so poor that we can not afford a house. I do not know if the average of actual marriage age is proportional to the average of the house price. In spite of these, I think the age of 35 is the upper limit for me to get married. The ideal age to get married is between 25 and 30.
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as early as possible.
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52楼2010-09-06 16:26:47
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marry early and have a baby are good to women ,
i want to get married in two or three years ,but we haven't enough money
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53楼2010-09-06 16:57:48
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Originally posted by leicaocao at 2010-09-06 16:57:48:
marry early and have a baby are good to women ,
i want to get married in two or three years ,but we haven't enough money

SO you have to work hard to make more money!

Best wishes!
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54楼2010-09-06 18:05:34
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where's LZ
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织女下凡洗澡认识了牛郎，演绎一段惊天地泣鬼神的爱情故事，这件事告诉我们：在家洗澡是没有机会的，所以洗澡一定要到外面去洗.....
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Originally posted by likai0711 at 2010-09-06 19:33:58:
where's LZ

LZ is busy with her PhD thesis. Good luck to LZ!
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honestly! marriage is far far far away from me ~~~   ~ there is no doubt that "material" is necessary for the marriage in our society. it's a realistic society..........
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xia_chong(金币+3):Good opinion! Best wishes for you! 2010-09-07 11:10:11
Well,this is an interesting topic.
I am just a person going to be married.I don't know whether my marriage will be
happy in future,but now i am content.
    Some says marriage is a fight which will not end untill someone hurts.But i don't think so,since you decide to form a family,you should have got a deeply recognition each other ,no matter good or bad you must have accepted before you marry.Certainly it also need you both making concession when there exist dispute.
    Here i hope everyone have a beatific marriage.
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work and  marriage,which should be first?  do they  conflist? I am very confused
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