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[交流] 【Discussion】【Activity】weekly topic——Several questions about marriage

    



Parents want us to get marry early. But now, "as people wait longer and longer to marry, the definition of what's too old keeps changing."

What is the Right Age to Get Married?

If single,never  frown ,   even  when you are sad , because you never know who is falling in love with your smile.

When do you plan to get married?
This year next yearsometime never?

How did/will you propose to your wife/GF ?

Did/Will you get down on one knee?


So how does a proposal-minded man cope?




Wedding is not consummation of love but only the beginning!
Some people say that love is romantic while marriage is realistic, happy marriage needs solid material as the basis. Well, such is life, in which simpleness and complexity go together, and so do happiness and sadness.
Sometimes, how can you have him/her? Even with his/her thousands and his/her houses, can you dispose of yourself without affection?


Please keep in mind that romance is an important element of marriage, and marriage is not a romantic end.The  romantic marriage  means  aging  all the way   with  you  and  picking up  bits  and  pieces  of  joy  for  as  to talk  about  at  length  when  we  are  too  old  to walk .The foundation of a good marriage is mutual trust. When you fight for your marriage, you both win.

            





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Originally posted by lemonbear at 2010-08-30 17:07:34:
love is romantic while marriage is realistic, happy marriage needs solid material as the basis

That's one fact. But I think we can fight for what we want!
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lxuyan(金币+1):谢谢参与
I think 27 is a good alternative. 30 is a little late, because I want a girl baby at 30.
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2楼2010-08-25 08:59:23
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xia_chong(金币+5):Good opinion! Bless you! 2010-08-25 21:53:23
I don't know when I want to marry,  I have not thought of  marrige in recent years, In fact it makes me feel a little flustered.
At the same time I will not have a baby, until I own the responsibility that fully prepared for being a good mother.

In this summer, I attended my best friend's wedding party. During the wedding, I was deely moved, I think my friend is really happy, she has a good husband who loves her very much. Bless them.

I remenber one sentence, once I hold your hand, I will be with you until we died.
Maybe marrige is just a kind of form, but it is the most wonderful momento in our whole life.

Hope everyone to be happy.
3楼2010-08-25 21:05:36
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lxuyan(金币+1):谢谢参与


I'm married.
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