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[交流] i am confused about the future

i hope i can work in zhejiangyinlun company ,because it can built the new factory the next year.at that time,i maybe can be the more important people of the new company.but my wife is two mouths pregnancy.what can i do?back or continue?

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Lopemann: 回帖置顶 2014-08-21 16:20:43
Lopemann: 金币+8, Thanks for your analysis. 2014-08-21 16:21:16

Well. Big congrats!

Maybe you need to keep a balance between career and family. i.e. money and love.

1. If you feel your money is enough to get the new baby, then you can spend more time on them.

2. If your wife does not think that you are prepared (especially for the money, a baby consumes a lot of money for milk powder, clothes, toys and others, about 2000/m. However, those things cannot compare with medicines and education. These days, a minor illness will cost you a lot of time and money, even if you have medical insurance. While the education is another economic problem 3 years later.), you need to work hard but do not forget to make your wife happy. As you know, nowadays, in mainland we can do nothing without money, although money is not everything. Also, you need your parents or her parents to take care of your wife and the infant 8 months later.

3. @Lopemann you'd better try your best to stay overseas. Medicine and Education are economic problems in China mainland. Each one could make us lose almost everything. Sometimes, even we spend a lot of money, the result is still not satisfied, needless to say if we do not have enough money. Several workmates of mine have resigned their domestic work and are trying best to stay USA/England/Sweden. have a look at this thread and the replies from mainland Chinese to see the difference if the same thing happens in mainland. Hope you have a good health.http://muchong.com/bbs/viewthread.php?tid=7785322&fpage=1