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[交流] i am confused about the future

i hope i can work in zhejiangyinlun company ,because it can built the new factory the next year.at that time,i maybe can be the more important people of the new company.but my wife is two mouths pregnancy.what can i do?back or continue?
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Lopemann: 回帖置顶 2014-08-21 16:20:43
Lopemann: 金币+8, Thanks for your analysis. 2014-08-21 16:21:16

Well. Big congrats!

Maybe you need to keep a balance between career and family. i.e. money and love.

1. If you feel your money is enough to get the new baby, then you can spend more time on them.

2. If your wife does not think that you are prepared (especially for the money, a baby consumes a lot of money for milk powder, clothes, toys  and others, about 2000/m. However, those things cannot compare with medicines and education. These days, a minor illness will cost you a lot of time and money, even if you have medical insurance. While the education is another economic problem 3 years later.), you need to work hard but do not forget to make your wife happy. As you know, nowadays, in mainland we can do nothing without money, although money is not everything. Also, you need your parents or her parents to take care of your wife and the infant 8 months later.

3. @Lopemann you'd better try your best to stay overseas. Medicine and Education are economic problems in China mainland.  Each one could make us lose almost everything. Sometimes, even we spend a lot of money, the result is still not satisfied, needless to say if we do not have enough money. Several workmates of mine have resigned their domestic work and are trying best to stay USA/England/Sweden.  have a look at this thread and the replies from mainland Chinese to see the difference if the same thing happens in mainland.  Hope you have a good health.http://muchong.com/bbs/viewthread.php?tid=7785322&fpage=1
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For me, the most important is to take care of your wife and your baby.
If you work hard, and you are the best, anyway, you can get more chance in future.
Blessing you
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NOCOLOK: 金币+1, thank you ,this is a good idea 2014-08-21 14:05:35
back  and  take care of your  wife
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6楼: Originally posted by zyjzw at 2014-08-21 13:44:40
go ahead

thank you ,but i need take care of her,she is in nanchang NOW
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NOCOLOK: 金币+2, family is the most important in my life 2014-08-21 14:04:17
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7楼: Originally posted by NOCOLOK at 2014-08-21 13:53:47
thank you ,but i need take care of her,she is in nanchang NOW...

now, you already have your decision~
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Lopemann: English only. 2014-08-21 16:20:37
谢谢楼主分享，祝福楼主！
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Lopemann: English only. 2014-08-21 16:20:32
楼主真好！
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15楼: Originally posted by 海子6987 at 2014-08-21 14:04:14
For me, the most important is to take care of your wife and your baby.
If you work hard, and you are the best, anyway, you can get more chance in future.
Blessing you

thank you ,as you said ,there are a lot of chances in the future,but,wife and baby is the only one
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21楼: Originally posted by Xiedanhui at 2014-08-21 14:54:08
Well. Big congrats!

Maybe you need to keep a balance between career and family. i.e. money and love.

1. If you feel your money is enough to get the new baby, then you can spend more time on t ...

thank you very much,wherever i am,taking good care of my family is the most important thing.
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21楼: Originally posted by Xiedanhui at 2014-08-21 14:54:08
Well. Big congrats!

Maybe you need to keep a balance between career and family. i.e. money and love.

1. If you feel your money is enough to get the new baby, then you can spend more time on t ...

I was a pharmacy student some time ago and I clearly know what I am after.

All in all, I would say Chinese medical system is good in many aspects.

Many people I know are more willing to maintain their permanent resident identity rather than becoming a real Australian. A big reason behind it is that we all prefer to do the surgery in China if bad things even happened.

Anyway, I would stay as a PR as well for the same reason.
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23楼: Originally posted by Lopemann at 2014-08-21 17:00:55
I was a pharmacy student some time ago and I clearly know what I am after.

All in all, I would say Chinese medical system is good in many aspects.

Many people I know are more willing to mainta ...


Cool.

The reason is the slow queuing system in Australia?

Most guys hold several identities....
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22楼: Originally posted by NOCOLOK at 2014-08-21 16:35:13
thank you very much,wherever i am,taking good care of my family is the most important thing....


Yeah, staying with family is important.
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24楼: Originally posted by Xiedanhui at 2014-08-21 17:17:44
Cool.

The reason is the slow queuing system in Australia?

Most guys hold several identities....
...

Yes, and more than that.

You cannot choose the doctor, the hospital and the way to do the surgery if you decide that Medicare is more than enough for you.

Most people have to wait more than 2 yrs to get to do the surgery. Many people died during the period actually, or get deteriorated in their medical conditions.

People with chronic disease are under huge financial constraints because visiting GP is free, but the access to medicine is definitely not, and is expensive.

A lot to say.

Most people agree that they can be better treated in China than in Australia. I am part of these people.
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