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As a recruit, it is my first post here. In fact, this is turned in my mind for a long time cause I don’t like to present anything on public place or internet-forums which may be read by my acquaintance. It always makes me feel upset. Thanks to this forum, I can express myself with freedom. I have no idea about the insouciance on my study for the past several summers. The thought of summer always hating me come into my mind now and then even although I’m not fetishistic. Every day, I came to the lab as the others do, however, I couldn’t be able to focus my attention on my study. Time passed day by day, I was even not clear what I had done. My study still stayed at the original place and it seemed that it would be keep stagnant. I felt very uneasy and tried my best to seek for a breakthrough, but I found my attempt was futile. Only one year left for me to complete my Ph.D study, I’m not afraid of it as my previous work is not bad but I just want more outcomes during the period of pursuing my Ph.D. It is a common sense that we should learn to adjust our mentality casue life couldn’t always satisfy us. We should learn to adapt to the rapidly changing society, city and life. My dear friends, have you ever encountered or are you also encountering the same setback as me? Could you pls share your experience with us or advise us some suggestions? Hope everything goes well with everyone and bless all. |
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tlh0720
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Lopemann: 回帖置顶 2014-07-31 15:57:34
Lopemann: 金币+6, Good luck & have fun. 2014-07-31 15:58:52
Lopemann: ESEPI+1, This is for you. 2014-07-31 15:59:03
Lopemann: 回帖置顶 2014-07-31 15:57:34
Lopemann: 金币+6, Good luck & have fun. 2014-07-31 15:58:52
Lopemann: ESEPI+1, This is for you. 2014-07-31 15:59:03
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Thanks for sharing your inspirational story with us. I don't hate scientific research, to some extent, I love it very much. The final outcomes is the most enjoyable event for me although the process frustrated me sometimes. Now I'm trying my best to adjust myself and also, I plan to go on a journey next week. Hope everything could be on the right track then. yeah, I'm still single and that is not the problem, either, I'm not eager to get married now as my job is still suspending. Huge wealth is not my goal, I just want to do my favorite work and would like a peaceful life. As you said, I have to rearrange my dreams and keep fighting for it. Thank you very much for your kind suggestions. |
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00waterh: 金币+8, ESEPI+1, good advice 2014-07-30 17:36:00
Lopemann: 回帖置顶 2014-07-31 05:52:54
00waterh: 金币+8, ESEPI+1, good advice 2014-07-30 17:36:00
Lopemann: 回帖置顶 2014-07-31 05:52:54
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Firstly, Do you have girl or boyfriend? Sometime, I think you can relax yourself, you could be on trip, study must combine with entertainment, the more happiness you are , the more achievement you will get! Secondly. you must think about why you studied and why you wanted to get more outcomes! you must understand yourself,and set a goal for yourself. Last, when I encouter the scene like you stay in, I will find a best friend and chat with him or her, because one of my best friends will enligten me! I will find some easy things to do, like that I can get more satisfication! Don't be alway to do some unresolution problems which you had long time .Sometime change you mood, change your emotions, change your situation,change your mind, you will be easy to get answer or the key you most need! Best wishes to you ! Good luck to you get your Ph.D ! |
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Lopemann: 金币+2, Good suggestion. 2014-07-30 21:42:14
Lopemann: 金币+2, Good suggestion. 2014-07-30 21:42:14
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