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Lopemann

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[交流] some feelings after talking to a fellow

Today is the last day of my trip.

Maybe the biggest surprise I receive today is that I met a boy coming from the same place as I do.

It was always me who started the conversation.
"You travel alone?"
"Yes I travel alone."
"You tourist or student here?"
"I'm not really a tourist. I come here to see my relatives, and go around to have a see at the same time."
"You Chinese?"
"I have the permanent residence of Singapore and am currently working in Singapore. But I should say I'm still Chinese. What about you?"
"Yea I'm Chinese as well. Which city are you from?"
"I studied at Wuhan University for my bachelor and finished my master in Singapore."
"Oh my god I'm from Wuhan as well and have some connections with Wuhan University as well!"

Now that we are from the same place, there is nothing much to hide.
We talked about different countries and our feelings towards them, and of course, we ended up having learned a lot from each other.

Before our trip came to an end, I asked him a question, "Among all your peers in Wuhan University, how do you think you are doing?"
"I'm doing okay, slightly worse than the average."

I confirmed again and again but he insisted he was doing just fine.

In my eyes, people in China at his age always complain about not getting a good employment, including those from universities in 985 program just like Wuhan University.
But he is receiving a good salary and having a good career outlook. One more thing here, he insisted more than half of his friends are doing better than him.

Is it really true or social norms that students from top universities are under bulk production and are no longer worthy?

Feel free to join the discussion.
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5楼: Originally posted by befair at 2013-12-23 20:12:33
I won't claim I have met people from the entire spectrum so my view is likely biased. My general view is that success or "doing well"  has to be looked at from a number of perspectives. In  ...

Wow, you made long and deep, deep discussion.
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菜鸟2012

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I am just wondering you communicate with each other in Enlglsih or in Chinese?
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2楼: Originally posted by 菜鸟2012 at 2013-12-23 18:43:41
I am just wondering you communicate with each other in Enlglsih or in Chinese?

First English, then Chinese, then our home language
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3楼: Originally posted by Lopemann at 2013-12-23 18:56:11
First English, then Chinese, then our home language...

i can imagine that scene.
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