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Gaze - means to direct your eyes towards something for a long time.
Stare - suggests fixing your eyes on somebody or something very deliberately. It can be impolite to stare at somebody.
Peer - means to look very closely and suggests that it is difficult to see well.
Gawk - is often used to show disapproval and means to look at someone or something in a foolish way especially with your mouth open.
Glance - to take a quick look at something.
Peep - means to look at something very quickly, especially secretly or quietly.
Inspect - means to examine something closely.
Feast your eyes - to look at something because you are pleased to see it.
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