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路下竹林

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[交流] How to refuse?

it is very normal to refuse somebody.but how to make refuse suitable is not very easy for us.
           when your friends ask you to offer help to he,you must be promised very soon.but if you are very busy or have something urgent to do.what do you do to rufuse his request?
           if someone who is not very familiar for you ask you to help,and you are not willing to help he,how to rufuse he?
         for me,i will tell the truth to my friend,and i will refuse others directly or tell he that i have other plan...
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May2012: 金币+5, thanks for sharing your opinion....long time no see...O(∩_∩)O 2013-06-03 19:36:07
basically agree with you, wise choice.
a waste of time is a waste of life, especially for those with very simple problems. it's quite easy if they just click their keyboard to ask BAIDU, satisfied answer will comes. but they just don't do that, they are getting used to bother somebody to get some so called "quick answers". that's what i hate.
on the other hand, there do someone need your help. in such case, try to give our hand to them if possiblle.

for other situations, like you are intend to help a girl, or a boy you like, that's out of this precondition.....

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A direct refuse shows your respect to others, maybe it's a good choice!

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4楼: Originally posted by liailong at 2013-06-03 01:51:18
A direct refuse shows your respect to others, maybe it's a good choice!

but
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4楼: Originally posted by liailong at 2013-06-03 01:51:18
A direct refuse shows your respect to others, maybe it's a good choice!

if he insist...
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May2012: 金币+1, you are a kind girl~~~~ 2013-06-03 19:40:00
I am not a good refuser, either. Sometimes, it's not so good to give a direct refuse to your friends or someon else. Ii's better to think one or two second before you give an answer.
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7楼: Originally posted by lrn076 at 2013-06-03 13:51:33
I am not a good refuser, either. Sometimes, it's not so good to give a direct refuse to your friends or someon else. Ii's better to think one or two second before you give an answer.

eh,i hope someone can give us some good idea!and then,we can refuse properly

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9楼: Originally posted by cory0931 at 2013-06-03 18:40:32
basically agree with you, wise choice.
a waste of time it a waste of life, especially for those very simple problems. it's quite easy if they just click their keyboard to ask the BAIDU, they got sat ...

yes,i also hate it,but i am willing to help the girl i like...
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