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5.24 Another raining day, blue mood! Hope everything is fine! 5.25 Today is Saturday, i can feel the sunshine through the curtain, happy! Sometimes I feel confused, because I totally do not know if it is worthy that I spent lots of money of my parents on my future study. I cannot promise I can graduate from a PhD, also it really cost too much! I just do not want my parents working all the time. My initial plan is to let them retire in advance and I will take them travel around. Yesterday, my mom told me she missed me, she didn't want me to continue a PhD. Sensibility told me do not pursue a PhD, but from my deep heart, I don't want to give up my dream. I always think my destination is not a master, but a PhD, maybe higher. Almost 99% here said you didn't need, especially girls. Well, I don't know now.... 5.26 I feel a little bit tired today. Social life is now more complex than before. Although I know not everyone treats you like friends, and the thoughts are different, I am still the one who will tell the truth to others and regard them as my real friends. Always the fact is when the party has gone, nobody will remember you and your dedication. Sometimes you are much too good to others, they will not appreciate you. Every time I told myself finally you would meet someone who treated you as a treasure. I still have hopes, and still think everybody in the world is lovely! I think this will be a diary for me.-----written at midnight After the struggling thoughts in my mind, I woke up at almost 12 o'clock. Then I cooked something to eat, and planed to go to gym. After an hour's exercise, my t-shirt was sweaty, but I felt much happier! Stick to do exercise! Tomorrow is Monday. Time to start work hard! 5.27 A big sunny day, I woke up not because of the weather, but the smell from the kitchen. The most important thing is to study and do the exercise this afternoon. I will write something for tomorrow's meeting and prepare something as fast as possible so that I can do what I want later. 5.29 Strange weather these two days, I cooked beef today, it was fantastic and amazing! My cute flatmate said: "Oh, it smells good!" Haha, I am a brilliant chef! He also said I could run a restaurant and he would definitely be my guest. I am so happy! Later on, some exercise need to be done today, so do some homework! Let's do them! Haha! [ Last edited by qx1314 on 2013-5-30 at 01:54 ] |
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May2012: 金币+7, thanks for your encouragement...I believe LZ will benefit much from your comment~O(∩_∩)O 2013-05-26 14:20:12
curton: 回帖置顶 2013-07-18 11:13:57
May2012: 金币+7, thanks for your encouragement...I believe LZ will benefit much from your comment~O(∩_∩)O 2013-05-26 14:20:12
curton: 回帖置顶 2013-07-18 11:13:57
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Compared to some kids in poverty country, we are so lucky and so happy for our education opportunity. If you want to do something ,you should hold on. your mother may be anxious for your study, your career and your marriage in future, which is the reason that she donot want you to pursue a PHD. You can communicate with her as frequently as you can, and the on-line talk may shorten the distance beween you and your mother. All the efforts you do today will give you a bright future . After your graduation from PHD, you can choose a job which is near your home, or they come to your city to live with you. Nowadays, traffic is so convinient that you can meet your parents soon . In one word , I think you should insist on your dream and the thought in your deep heart. Many years later ,you would benifit from your insistance today. |
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curton: 金币+8, The reason why now I feel confused is because I don't know where is meaning to pursue a PhD, I don't want to increase the burden of my family without any scholarship, and I think the money is my parents' not mine. I can't be so mean and so selfish. I am very thankful because my parents gave me too much money in my master degree. 2013-07-02 12:39:38
curton: 回帖置顶 2013-07-18 11:13:59
curton: 金币+8, The reason why now I feel confused is because I don't know where is meaning to pursue a PhD, I don't want to increase the burden of my family without any scholarship, and I think the money is my parents' not mine. I can't be so mean and so selfish. I am very thankful because my parents gave me too much money in my master degree. 2013-07-02 12:39:38
curton: 回帖置顶 2013-07-18 11:13:59
| The reason why now I feel confused is because I don't know where is meaning to pursue a PhD, I don't want to increase the burden of my family without any scholarship, and I think the money is my parents' not mine. I can't be so mean and so selfish. I am very thankful because my parents gave me too much money in my master degree. I think it is not their duty to give me so much money after I have been an adult. However, they did! I really feel I am lucky to have kind and loving parents. As time goes by, I cannot just think about myself, to be honest, PhD is a risky thing to do for me. I am not the kind of person who likes academic things very much. I think it's better to go back to my home and have a discussion with my parents seriously! All in all, thank you, guys! |
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