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魏念安

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shuixian2009: only english here 2013-05-22 12:32:10
我菜鸟，由于能力有限，很多词汇看不懂，要是能附翻译更好了。
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fungixx: 金币+6, thanks for your sharing~ i totally agree with your point~ 2013-05-22 17:53:12
my parents are small farmers and they hardly had chance to stay in the city. in average i saw them once or twice a year during the last 10 years. this year the situation is changed. 'cause of my baby, my mom was staying with us for some weeks. unfortunately, during her stay here taking care of my baby, my grandmother was badly ill. now my mom went back home to take care of her mom.
no matter how often you visit your parents, there is no denying that they are always remembering you, caring you and loving you. just like the way you are taking care of your baby, that is love transmitted between generations
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知识改变命运
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fungixx: 金币+4, Girl~ maybe you should afford more time to accompany your family~ you can do that~ welcome to english cafe~ 2013-05-22 17:52:17
in the past 7 years, I study in another city wich is far away from my hometown and Ii come back to see my parents once a year. Now, I graduate from school and work in a company. there is less time for me to stay with my parents. sometimes I miss them and I do not lnow what I purse in fact. Life is so difficult!
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可以朝九晚五，也能浪迹天涯
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zhuquanm

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a week once
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shuixian2009: 金币+1, i usually go home once a month 2013-05-23 14:05:22
Almost three times a year.But I usually give a call to my parent every week which makes me feel that we are not too far from each other.
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tuqin2575

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once or twice a year now.....
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Befreeinyourway,justliketheshinninglighteveryday.
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shuixian2009: 金币+6, I have no idea how to make you feel better. Best wishes↖(^ω^)↗ 2013-05-23 14:04:51
The speed of your success is racing with your parents' lives.These words are printed on the wall in our college's dining hall. I remember when I first saw them, a very complecated emotion came out. I felt anxious, sad, and mostly helpless I think. As a matter of fact, I still do. I believe many parents can't win the race, including mine. I'm 25 years old now, and my father is already 63, my mother is 55 carrying uremia for 6 years. I'm sill persuing my master's degree. Sometimes I wonder, what dose success mean. How successful I have to be to make my parents win? Even though I succeed one day, will I have time to be with them or to make them happy? I hope I have answers to these. But I really don't. I love my parents very, very, very much, but what I can do for them is so, so little. I think I'm gonna cry.
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火星不好混啊
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shuixian2009: 金币+2, once 2013-05-23 13:52:17
just once a month,  though we are in the same city. now, i am always confused with my job or my future, and ignored much we should cared more.
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jj雪泥鸿爪

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My parents,who are the person I treat as my soul.I love them so much .
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为了梦想，我愿意
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nwsuafliu

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47楼: Originally posted by irenehy at 2013-05-23 09:06:14
The speed of your success is racing with your parents' lives.These words are printed on the wall in our college's dining hall. I remember when I first saw them, a very complecated emotion came out. I ...

to some extent i could not agree with the argument. I would say it is just an excuse. why should it be until you are successful that you will be good to your parents ? In case you are not that "sucessful" as expected, then you have a reason not to love or care them ?
i would prefer not to link your "sucess" with the way you treat your parents.  If you let them wait,you already lose even you suceed rapidly.
if there is something to do, do it now, don't wait till you are "sucessful".
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