【Weekly topic】How often do you visit your parents? - English Cafe - Diary

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May2012: 金币+4, cherish every minute that being with our parents...no matter how unwilling we are, they will leave us some day... 2013-05-19 19:47:33

As a young people working far from my hometown and unmarried,I feel uneasy to go home sometimes.On one hand,I am busy and struggling for my future,so there is little time.On the other,every time I am home,I will be asked to take blind-love or forced to find a girl and marrry her.
However,after seeing this post,I know that I should have myself changed.However uneasy and whatever my parents will requst me,I will go home and see them.Anyway,parents are nolonger young,and we children should treasure the time we could share with them.

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22楼2013-05-19 17:47:03

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shuixian2009: 金币+1, I am so sorry 2013-05-21 13:16:15

I am very sad because my parents had been died. So I cant to see them again.

23楼2013-05-19 19:51:48

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shuixian2009: 金币+12, ESEPI+1, family means the world for us. 2013-05-21 13:17:14
shuixian2009: 回帖置顶 2013-05-21 13:17:17

Parents, who are the greatest persons in the world, give us soul, bring us up. cost countless to educate and  build us up. However, they never claim anything of you, what they have done is just sacrifice. In China, we the youth are used to counting and relying on our closed relationship even we are in the age of 30 even 40. Cause we are afraid of  indepedence  and feeding ourslves.

When I was a kid, hanging out with neigbor guys came the first,  often being bored with partents' endless instructions, dreaming living outside eagerly. One day, when I was in late 15, I turned into a senior student and in a boarding school, after one week time indepedenting of father and mother, for a moment, I missed them way much. About 3 years, I back home every one moth, actually, I need some money to pay for the bills . When it came to my  18, a adult in law, I bacame a freshman of the cmapus, and it was nearly 300 miles apart from my home and my partents. Only summer and winter vocation, I could make my trip home. We had less time staying with our parents with our growth. Time  changes everything, greys the hair, wrinkles the face, extracts the energy.

Parents are old before we  are full of the capability to support them. Like a candle ,burns it self to light the others. But we had to work far from them, we have to pursue our career goals, we have no time to care about them, we have no chances to touch their heart. In fact, it is a guilty and insult. Frankly, we cannot make a tradeoff, we cannot to make the rough diceision when it comes to our partents and career.However, we can make a period call and visit to our ture home and family,

We can lead a life well without a house, but if we lose the family, everything is nothing.

24楼2013-05-19 21:32:33

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shuixian2009: 金币+2, say your love to them. 2013-05-21 13:17:56

it's a good topic.i feel myself very selfish.i don't know i haveenough time.maybe i only find excuse.maybe parents only need a sentencewhen isay i love them.

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25楼2013-05-20 08:41:12

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shuixian2009: ESEPI+1, 取消屏蔽, 专家考核, i am so sorry 2013-05-22 11:47:31
shuixian2009: ESEPI-1, I am sorry 2013-05-22 12:32:35

We sometimes have no that much choices, it is if we could instead of whether we want that decide how often we go back home.

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26楼2013-05-20 17:03:22

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about twice a year and last two month.

27楼2013-05-20 22:39:02

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shuixian2009: 金币+1, oh, you are really far away from your hometown. 2013-05-21 13:19:35

My hometown is in Henan provience,I work in Haikou .I can visit my parents only in Spring festival for a few days.

有时候，你必须跌到你从未经历的谷底，才能再次站在你从未到达的高峰。

28楼2013-05-20 23:04:39

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shuixian2009: 金币+3, It is them who always supprt you. 2013-05-21 13:20:42

This year is very important for me. I will graduate from school next year and I have to find a job for myself.So I go home and visit my parents once a year. I thank my parents very much , because their love is selfish and the only one who will support you no matter who else thinks of.
For me , I think that I grow up healthily , find a good job , find a girlfriend , is the most important thing for them.

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29楼2013-05-21 00:35:13

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shuixian2009: 金币+1, I call my mom every week. 2013-05-21 13:21:30

I make a phonecall to my mother almost everyday after work.And the funny thing is that she almost feels bored !But I just ignore this.Nonetheless everytime we tallk happily.

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30楼2013-05-21 12:34:57