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[交流] 【Weekly topic】How often do you visit your parents?

`Parents` is a great word in many languages as they give birth to us and sacrifice themselves to feed us. After working or studying at a distance, many people are unable to live with their parents as in the childhood or teenager` time.

After having another family, the issue becomes normally worse than before. In order show their thanks to their parents, most people will spend a
lot of money to buy many gifts for compensating
the decreased care due to the infrequent visit. We all know that most parents do not really need the gifts at their age. The only thing they would like to have is a moment with whole family members. This is even more important for the parents with high age.

I understand most adults have their own jobs, relationships and other things to deal with every day. Maybe, someone does not wanna listen the repeated chats. However, this is not an execuse for not visiting your parents. They deserve our care after feeding up from born.

To be honest, visiting parents in a regular pattern doesn't mean it has to be every week. Personally, a monthly visit especially on the public holidays and traditional festivals are essential.

When you visit your parents, most people will bring a lot of things but they need. A wise selection considering their actual needs is your second important job. Lastly, donot forget to bring all your family members, which means a lot to your parents.

In summary, to repect parents is a tradition in China, but a lot people don't know how to show their respect and care to their parents. A regular visit is the best way to appreciate your parents.

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Parents, who are the greatest persons in the world, give us soul, bring us up. cost countless to educate and  build us up. However, they never claim anything of you, what they have done is just sacrifice. In China, we the youth are used to counting and relying on our closed relationship even we are in the age of 30 even 40. Cause we are afraid of  indepedence  and feeding ourslves.

When I was a kid, hanging out with neigbor guys came the first,  often being bored with partents' endless instructions, dreaming living outside eagerly. One day, when I was in late 15, I turned into a senior student and in a boarding school, after one week time indepedenting of father and mother, for a moment, I missed them way much. About 3 years, I back home every one moth, actually, I need some money to pay for the bills . When it came to my  18, a adult in law, I bacame a freshman of the cmapus, and it was nearly 300 miles apart from my home and my partents. Only summer and winter vocation, I could make my trip home. We had less time staying with our parents with our growth. Time  changes everything, greys the hair, wrinkles the face, extracts the energy.

Parents are old before we  are full of the capability to support them. Like a candle ,burns it self to light the others. But we had to work far from them, we have to pursue our career goals, we have no time to care about them, we have no chances to touch their heart. In fact, it is a guilty and insult. Frankly, we cannot make a tradeoff, we cannot to make the rough diceision when it comes to our partents and career.However, we can make a period call and visit to our ture home and family,

We can lead a life well without a house, but if we lose the family, everything is nothing.