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[交流] 【Weekly topic】How often do you visit your parents?

`Parents` is a great word in many languages as they give birth to us and sacrifice themselves to feed us. After working or studying at a distance, many people are unable to live with their parents as in the childhood or teenager` time.

After having another family, the issue becomes normally worse than before. In order show their thanks to their parents, most people will spend a
lot of money to buy many gifts for compensating
the decreased care due to the infrequent visit. We all know that most parents do not really need the gifts at their age. The only thing they would like to have is a moment with whole family members. This is even more important for the parents with high age.

I understand most adults have their own jobs, relationships and other things to deal with every day. Maybe, someone does not wanna  listen the repeated chats. However, this is not an execuse for not visiting your parents. They deserve our care after feeding up from born.

To be honest, visiting parents in a regular pattern doesn't mean it has to be every week. Personally, a monthly visit especially on the public holidays and traditional festivals are essential.

When you visit your parents, most people will bring a lot of things but they need. A wise selection considering their actual needs is your second important job. Lastly, donot forget to bring all your family members, which means a lot to your parents.

In summary, to repect parents is a tradition in China, but a lot people don't know how to show their respect and care to their parents. A regular visit is the best way to appreciate your parents.

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[ Last edited by fungixx on 2013-5-17 at 15:34 ]
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fungixx: 金币+6, thanks for your sharing~ i totally agree with your point~ 2013-05-22 17:53:12
my parents are small farmers and they hardly had chance to stay in the city. in average i saw them once or twice a year during the last 10 years. this year the situation is changed. 'cause of my baby, my mom was staying with us for some weeks. unfortunately, during her stay here taking care of my baby, my grandmother was badly ill. now my mom went back home to take care of her mom.
no matter how often you visit your parents, there is no denying that they are always remembering you, caring you and loving you. just like the way you are taking care of your baby, that is love transmitted between generations
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l am a student far away with my parents,so l only visit them on half year.

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fungixx: 金币+1, the same with u, good night 2013-05-17 23:31:12
l am a student far away with my parents,so l only visit them about half year.

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fungixx: 金币+1, yeah, i totally agree with u 2013-05-17 23:30:39
actually,even just give a call to your parents ,they would be very happy。
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