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叫我cherish

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[交流] For help :opinions

If you asked someone to help , that person refused , the reason was :"i've no interests in these . " ok , just assumed i've not said . the second time , you've sweared to the leader that you would help me when i was so busy alone , so i asked you to help , you hesitated , then said  you didn't want . I disappointed greatly .

You're not princess , and i'm not menial , i take the initiative to help you , no matter whether you ask me to help every time .

2 not 3 again ,never over and over again (maybe it's mis-represent ). Perhaps i have to be a person who is selfish , or neither selfish nor selfless .
the relationship is so fragile , i take care about you , so what ? you are always on the watch , i'm tired now . Just be ordinary friends .

do you think what i do is right ?
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winter_north: 金币+2, Oh, what a pity! 2013-04-30 02:23:48
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8楼: Originally posted by lichongqing at 2013-04-10 14:16:42
I think you are wrong:this person is not your friend and you dont need to care about him  at all. You can reflect this thing to your leader and ask another one to help you.
One cannot meet everyone ...

Actually , i'm the person who said less , but understand almost all the things in my mind , so it's not necessary to complain to the leader , and i'm not that person . Now the only to be sure is that our relationship has come to the end .
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nono2009

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ask the right person for help.
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叫我cherish: 金币+1 2013-04-10 16:13:33
winter_north: 金币+3, Yes. Let\'s work hard for true friendship! 2013-04-30 02:24:37
the answer is really hard to give,you know.
but if the one you always give help to says 'no interests in these'or hesitate again and again when you ask for help,i think he/she is not a good friend.a good friend even he/she has no time to help you,he/she will make ideas for you.

but in such a materrial world that the real friendship is really hard to get.
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winter_north: 金币+2, There is still pure friendship in this world. 2013-04-30 02:25:15
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5楼: Originally posted by 00waterh at 2013-04-10 10:32:05
the answer is really hard to give,you know.
but if the one you always give help to says 'no interests in these'or hesitate again and again when you ask for help,i think he/she is not a good friend.a ...

i know , thank you , this problem has troubled me all the time , maybe i have got the answer long before , however , i just don't willing to compromise , because i still believe the relationship will be deepened as time goes , but i'm wrong .

[ Last edited by 叫我cherish on 2013-4-10 at 11:55 ]
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winter_north: 金币+2, Yes. The pity is that we have less and less people who we can cherish. 2013-04-30 02:25:56
That's a right choice.Just be ordinary friends and don't take too much care about him.Never pay close attention to those who  hesitate to sacrifice for friends.
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叫我cherish: 金币+1 2013-04-10 16:13:22
winter_north: 金币+2, It is difficult. 2013-04-30 02:26:20
I think you are wrong:this person is not your friend and you dont need to care about him  at all. You can reflect this thing to your leader and ask another one to help you.
One cannot meet everyone's friendship
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you have done well what you should, so you needn't doubt yourself.
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no right and wrongs , just do the things you want to do, follow your heart
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