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If you asked someone to help , that person refused , the reason was :"i've no interests in these . " ok , just assumed i've not said . the second time , you've sweared to the leader that you would help me when i was so busy alone , so i asked you to help , you hesitated , then said you didn't want . I disappointed greatly . You're not princess , and i'm not menial , i take the initiative to help you , no matter whether you ask me to help every time . 2 not 3 again ,never over and over again (maybe it's mis-represent ). Perhaps i have to be a person who is selfish , or neither selfish nor selfless . the relationship is so fragile , i take care about you , so what ? you are always on the watch , i'm tired now . Just be ordinary friends . do you think what i do is right ? |
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winter_north: 金币+2, Oh, what a pity! 2013-04-30 02:23:48
winter_north: 金币+2, Oh, what a pity! 2013-04-30 02:23:48
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Actually , i'm the person who said less , but understand almost all the things in my mind , so it's not necessary to complain to the leader , and i'm not that person . Now the only to be sure is that our relationship has come to the end . |
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叫我cherish: 金币+1 2013-04-10 16:13:33
winter_north: 金币+3, Yes. Let\'s work hard for true friendship! 2013-04-30 02:24:37
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winter_north: 金币+3, Yes. Let\'s work hard for true friendship! 2013-04-30 02:24:37
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the answer is really hard to give,you know. but if the one you always give help to says 'no interests in these'or hesitate again and again when you ask for help,i think he/she is not a good friend.a good friend even he/she has no time to help you,he/she will make ideas for you. but in such a materrial world that the real friendship is really hard to get.  |
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winter_north: 金币+2, There is still pure friendship in this world. 2013-04-30 02:25:15
winter_north: 金币+2, There is still pure friendship in this world. 2013-04-30 02:25:15
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i know , thank you , this problem has troubled me all the time , maybe i have got the answer long before , however , i just don't willing to compromise , because i still believe the relationship will be deepened as time goes , but i'm wrong . [ Last edited by 叫我cherish on 2013-4-10 at 11:55 ] |
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叫我cherish: 金币+1 2013-04-10 16:13:22
winter_north: 金币+2, It is difficult. 2013-04-30 02:26:20
叫我cherish: 金币+1 2013-04-10 16:13:22
winter_north: 金币+2, It is difficult. 2013-04-30 02:26:20
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I think you are wrong:this person is not your friend and you dont need to care about him at all. You can reflect this thing to your leader and ask another one to help you. One cannot meet everyone's friendship |
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2013-04-10 09:49
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