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yuesenior

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[交流] 访问学者抛砖引玉闲谝系列(十五、实验室内的gossip letter) 已有5人参与

国际实验室内相处门道甚多,今不赘述,分享一封真实的信件,我实验室某老博士***自居senior,对newcomers颐指气使。另外一个年轻博士,和我同时进实验室,来自孟加拉国,小伙子不错,对人都很友好,我们私下是朋友,这个年轻的博士总是受老博士欺负,这个老博士对我也不怎么友好,是伊朗的货。一般的规则还是不要讲闲话,不要成伙的好,但是这个年轻的博士最近可怜地都抑郁了,今天他终于忍不住给我吐了一天的苦水,他抗争过,斗不过这个老家伙。我们有两个office,我和两个女孩一个office,另外四个男生一个office,今日这个年轻的博士告诉我说和那个伊朗的货在一个office真是torture,我看这哥们可怜,他帮我了很多忙,我打算晚上写封信安慰一下他,表示一下我们中国人的友善,同时给他建议让他圆滑一点,大局为重,不要计较。

Dear friend:
I am wise to that it is kind of torture to be with ***.
We are here for our knowledge and diploma, not for ***. we are in the same boat, and we are on the same wavelength. When I was young, I tended to wear my heart on my sleeve, sometimes this trait in our character is not conducive for us to handle a complex environment, worst of all where the situation is agaist us. As the proverb goes, better bend than break,one more Chinese saying: Revenge is a dish best served cold. In view of the present context in our group,the best way for the moment is to be tolerant, it is not becase we are cowardly.It is below us to argue about with him. As you know, discretion is the better part of valor. What we need to do is focus on my experiment, improve the occasion if some opportunities come. Don't take whatever he says and does to your heart, he is still young, and time will teach him a lot.
Every tide has its ebb, every dog has its day!
Tenacity is no more dispensable for a great man than might is.
Cheer up! my friend.
I write this encouragement for both you and me.
Yours sincerely
Yue senior

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呵呵,谦虚了,海外归来,肯定有很多收获,不急不急,等交完基金,慢慢道来。
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跳跃性太强了,都系列15了。。。

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2楼: Originally posted by 烈火中的凤凰 at 2013-03-29 16:27:03
跳跃性太强了,都系列15了。。。

那我就不去找14了
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兄台,英语不错!,如何修炼到如此境界的
能介绍一二么
多谢
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