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[交流] What should i do to go on the relationship.

Now i meet a big problem.At the begining of this term i tell a girl i loved that I had fell in love with her for a long time and i asked her to be my girlfriends,to my surprise she also loved me,so we just get together for one month.But now i found that i am not so good at expression that i think she may think i am not so care for her so much,and i do not know what i can do to make her much happier.What is worse is that i do not know what kinds of gift should i send,i so afraid that she will leave one day.I am eager to do something for her,but i just have no idea,it is my first time.I need you help,so help me to go out it,thank you very much.
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winter_north: 金币+4, Old ginger's words are more helpful. 2012-10-08 22:30:36
473364369: 金币+3, quite good 2012-10-09 08:47:36
curton: 回帖置顶 2012-10-23 22:33:48
All girls wanted is security..
What is security? At different time you will have different answer.

For example, keep your eyes off all other beautiful girl is security
A big diamond ring is security
Help her brother to find a job is security
Marry her is security
And a house or plan to have a house is definitely the answer never false.

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473364369: 金币+3, thanks i will try my best to do 2012-10-09 08:49:16
curton: 回帖置顶 2012-10-14 16:05:03
well, well, you could do many things for her,
such as, saying somehing to her through message, or telling a joke for her
and if possible giving her a surperise (according to her interest...)
if you don't know what she like, you could get some information from her friends
and just do something but not just afraid of her leaving you...okay?
best regards...
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curton: 金币+8, LET HER KNOW THAT!!! 2012-10-23 22:32:32
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Get to know her through chat, don't afraid to expression your feeling about her.
Knowing what she wants and always care about her,  do everything you can to make her happy.
The most important is to be yourself, don't let anyone change who you are, cause you know, she is the one you love the most.
And LET HER KNOW THAT!!!
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473364369: 金币+4, Great idea 2012-10-09 08:40:51
just be yourself！she love you because who you are，not what you did
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winter_north: 金币+3, Be yourself, listen to your heart. 2012-10-10 02:59:52
You should do yourself. Because i think you should not to take a mask, if  you do some you don't like things for her, you will so tired, and if you are in together, then you maybe not happiness, just my opinion. so do your best your-self. and i think her loved you, her can
tolerate you anythings. so do yourself, good-luck.
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winter_north: 金币+2, Yes, love needs more talk. 2012-10-11 23:43:50
I think you can tell these ideas to her so that she can understand what you are thinking and why you don't do a lot as others' BF.If you are always silence,she may be anxious that you don't love her again.
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473364369: 金币+1, thanks for giving advice 2012-10-08 13:29:48
Just be positive,you know one should be since when communicate with others,and you will get her appreciate soon.What you should do is that just be yourself,and do what you want to do.Best wishes.
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4楼: Originally posted by NickHu at 2012-10-08 13:11:35
Just be positive,you know one should be since when communicate with others,and you will get her appreciate soon.What you should do is that just be yourself,and do what you want to do.Best wishes.:tig ...

Thanks a lot.
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473364369: 金币+1, thanks for giving advice 2012-10-08 13:30:02
Give her your concern and care. She will be happy.
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6楼: Originally posted by shuixian2009 at 2012-10-08 13:19:27
Give her your concern and care. She will be happy.

The matter is I do not know how to care about her,in other word what is the respect.But thanks a lot.
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winter_north: 金币+2, That's right! 2012-10-08 22:24:49
To be a man. Go shopping with her and try to find her interest, and then buy to her secretarily. Show your love without delay, ie, to kiss her without hesition.
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473364369: 金币+2, thanks 2012-10-09 08:39:15
Being with a right person is amazing. Your heart inside would make that choice.
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winter_north: 金币+2, Hehe, this is also a good advice. 2012-10-08 22:25:12
473364369: 金币+3, yes,good advice 2012-10-09 08:40:25
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winter_north: 屏蔽内容, Please use Englishi. 2012-10-08 22:25:29
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winter_north: 金币+1, Yes, the most important is that you love her, you care about her, not how to express your love or what kind of gift you buy her. 2012-10-08 22:26:17
love her.
make her being your lover in your dream.make something sense.don\'t worry about her.you are the man

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winter_north: 金币+4, Yes, all these are very true words. 2012-10-08 22:26:57
You should be positive for your relationship, maybe your could see many movies and novels to learn much things. Girls love the boy who can give her security and you should be yourself In front of her. Don't worry! Guys get together that need more communication. Furthermore, you can tell her just what make you so frustrated. I think she would give you  more opinions.
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winter_north: 金币+1, Yes. Gift is not very important. 2012-10-08 22:27:27
Communicating  is more important than gift.Just let her know that. Patience is also important,do not be so upset.Do something small may also be a surprise.
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winter_north: 金币+2, Yes, come on! 2012-10-08 22:27:44
473364369: 金币+2, thanks 2012-10-09 08:42:29
give your hug,and say you will do every thing to keep her.if you dont know you can ask.if she want to keep the relationship she will give you some advice.
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curton: 金币+2, Magnificent and victorious over like clouds, go in light is true. 2012-10-23 22:33:10
Magnificent and victorious over like clouds, go in light is true.
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curton: 金币+2, be yourself 2012-10-23 22:33:35
You to do well oneself, the camouflage can not get love.
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winter_north: 金币+1, I think, they may have told it for many times. :) Best wishes! 2012-10-08 22:28:26
the most important thing during lovers is to express your feeling. so，there\'s no doubt that you should tell her immediately that you love her .  best wishes.

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winter_north: 金币+2, Oh, so, this may be different from my opinion. 2012-10-08 22:29:07
473364369: 金币+1, thanks 2012-10-09 08:45:44
every girl loves gifts, no matter what the gifts are. so when it is a festival, such as Christmas Day, Valentine's Day, send a gift to her, the gift can be cheap,or expensive, just depend on you. most importantly is that it stands for your love.
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winter_north: 金币+1, Wish you will find you love soon. 2012-10-08 22:29:29
473364369: 金币+1, good luck 2012-10-09 08:46:10
You are so lucky thay you have a girlfriend you loved.I have no girlfriend so I can not get any help for you.Best wish for you.
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Be positive。Tell her how much you love her
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winter_north: 金币+1, Hehe, shuixian is modest! 2012-10-08 22:29:54
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7楼: Originally posted by 473364369 at 2012-10-08 13:22:05
The matter is I do not know how to care about her,in other word what is the respect.But thanks a lot....

I have no idea what you should do, because every girl has her own understanding of love. Perhaps some guys can give you advices.
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winter_north: 金币+3, Good advice again. 2012-10-08 22:31:01
473364369: 金币+2, thanks a lot 2012-10-09 08:48:23
You can send messages to her ,just tell her you love her when you miss her.
most of girls love flowers,you can prepare a bunch of red rose to her as gift.
and sometimes you can buy chocolate or candies to her.
if your love is true ,I think she will understand you .
Good luck !
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28楼: Originally posted by w1y2c30906 at 2012-10-08 18:31:45
You are so lucky thay you have a girlfriend you loved.I have no girlfriend so I can not get any help for you.Best wish for you.

there are so many single girls in emuch, maybe you can go to \"chongyouhushi\", best wish for you, buddy.

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think about what her wants but not buy in the past.
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37楼: Originally posted by Justonestand at 2012-10-08 23:02:00
there are so many single girls in emuch, maybe you can go to \"chongyouhushi\", best wish for you, buddy.
...

Thank you.I always go to the 'chongyouhushi' recently.I hope someday I can find my right person.Pump it.
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473364369: 金币+5, thanks for caring.no progress. 2012-10-09 12:26:42
how is it going？

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473364369: 金币+2, thanks 2012-10-09 12:25:36
Don't  think about it too much, I think if you still put her in your heart,she can feel that you are good for her. It is important to often have a heart to heart talk with her.Hope you are happy!
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have relationship as soon as possible
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she will never leave you if she loves you in her mind.
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curton: 金币+2, communicate and share 2012-10-23 22:34:17
Don't worry, just to communicate, to share your stories, to know the other.
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47楼: Originally posted by my_____dream at 2012-10-09 17:05:16
You should do yourself. Because i think you should not to take a mask, if  you do some you don't like things for her, you will so tired, and if you are in together, then you maybe not happiness, just ...

thanks very much.Just be yourself.I will do it.

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35楼: Originally posted by rchiuctw at 2012-10-08 20:18:18 All girls wanted is security.. What is security? At different time you will have different answer. For example, keep your eyes off all other beautiful girl is security A big diamond ring is secu ...

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