[交流] 【Activity】【Weekly Topic】Facing Choices，How do you do

Facing Choices，How do you do

        Choices is everywhere. Everyone may make different choices and then has a different life. A choice is one living way and can have an exchange for many kinds of experience. People can make many times choicees，but there will not start all over again after the choice having been made.
Scene 1
      A boy is about to graduate and facing to two choice：one is a steady job in his hometown, which is done by the help of his relatives（equal to “get in by the back door”）；the other one is an uncertain  challenging job in the big city, which needs his a hundredfold efforts with his girlfriend. What should he make the choices？
Scene 2
      Since the spring festival is coming，one couple have to make their choices about where should they go to spend their festival, father's home or father-in-law's home,it is a question.
Scene 3
      A beautiful girl have received two Confessiones from two boys. One boy which she loves has nothing except for his love and commitment of the future; and the other boy which love her very much and she doesn't hate has good life condition from his parents and has done a good management in the company of their own.
      There are also more and more choices in our life. What the type of choice do you face? How to make a good choice?
            Please give your ideas··· BBs and ESEPIs are no problem\(^o^)/~

                  

The continual choices make up life.
Today I met one:
Planning to cut hair this noon I went to the barbersshop with two of my classmates. The hairdresser surgestide me a perm(烫头发) as what they  do all the time. But I didn't plan to do it this time though planed a perm before.
He showed me a picture and told me this is the effect.
So many years I just keep the same hair style-strait hair ponytail(马尾辫).
Deep down inside I want to change---anyhow I am a lady now---so I said yes after times' struggle.

Beside this I face a chooce those days.
January 11th would be mom's birthday and I have bought a ticket(the 9th, Jan) to home, but I am afraid to tell my tutor about the ticket staff for the others they usuallly go back home for spring festival near the "xiaonian". But I really want to go home for my mum's birthday.
What should I do? You guys have similar experience?

yeah, we confront with choices anytime and anywhere
it begins from the moment when you open you eyes in the morning
as for the little matters in daily life
when the alarm rings, you have to decide whether continue stay in the warm bed or get up decisively considering your dream
when you dress up, you may decide to choose which clothes to wear
when you go to the dining hall, you just wonder what to eat。。。
well, as for the big events in your life
when you will graduate, you have to confront with the choice
whether to study further, at home or aboard, or just go to work
as for your better half, you wanna know whom is the one you like and choose
just like the scene 3, you may take the reality into account
and when you have a family, you will face the problem like scene 3
or many other things you are entangled with。。。,etc
all in all, so many choices you have to decide in your daily and all life

well, as far as I am concerned, most of the time
it is the choice we suffer from, but not the thing itself
like guoguo said, once you made you decision, you may felt so clear
even though the thing may be hard to do, but when you know the direction
you could get it by your effort
after all, the choice determines the direction
so, wish us all have wise choices in different stages of our life for different choice