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[交流] 【Activity】【Weekly Topic】Facing Choices,How do you do


Facing Choices,How do you do


        Choices is everywhere. Everyone may make different choices and then has a different life. A choice is one living way and can have an exchange for many kinds of experience. People can make many times choicees,but there will not start all over again after the choice having been made.
Scene 1
      A boy is about to graduate and facing to two choice:one is a steady job in his hometown, which is done by the help of his relatives(equal to “get in by the back door”);the other one is an uncertain  challenging job in the big city, which needs his a hundredfold efforts with his girlfriend. What should he make the choices?

Scene 2
      Since the spring festival is coming,one couple have to make their choices about where should they go to spend their festival, father's home or father-in-law's home,it is a question.

Scene 3
      A beautiful girl have received two Confessiones from two boys. One boy which she loves has nothing except for his love and commitment of the future; and the other boy which love her very much and she doesn't hate has good life condition from his parents and has done a good management in the company of their own.

      There are also more and more choices in our life. What the type of choice do you face? How to make a good choice?
            Please give your ideas··· BBs and ESEPIs are no problem\(^o^)/~



                  


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Emma唐

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wry3300(金币+10): the first choice you made is nice~~for the second, I hope that you can talk with your tutor deeply and make it true 2011-12-31 20:46:01
lppv: 回帖置顶 2011-12-31 21:48:02
lppv(ESEPI+1): many times, facing to choices, hard to make a decision~~~ 2011-12-31 22:23:42

The continual choices make up life.
Today I met one:
Planning to cut hair this noon I went to the barbersshop with two of my classmates. The hairdresser surgestide me a perm(烫头发) as what they  do all the time. But I didn't plan to do it this time though planed a perm before.
He showed me a picture and told me this is the effect.
So many years I just keep the same hair style-strait hair ponytail(马尾辫).
Deep down inside I want to change---anyhow I am a lady now---so I said yes after times' struggle.

Beside this I face a chooce those days.
January 11th would be mom's birthday and I have bought a ticket(the 9th, Jan) to home, but I am afraid to tell my tutor about the ticket staff for the others they usuallly go back home for spring festival near the "xiaonian". But I really want to go home for my mum's birthday.
What should I do? You guys have similar experience?


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wry3300(金币+10): xiaoxun~~~do it by your effort·~~· the result will be fine~~~add oil~~ 2011-12-31 21:24:51
lppv: 回帖置顶 2011-12-31 21:48:10
I am facing a big choice now.
If I passed the eaxms,I would  come back to college for my further study.But if that's true,I will resign from my current position.
I need more courage to do that.
Sometime,I am really afraid that I cant  adapt the school life again.
But when I have already made up my mind,I will never come back,just go ahead.
Just try and exert my strength.
2012,where will I go and stay,all depend on the uncertain fate.
That will be a new start full of chenllges for me.
God bless me.
Say good luck to myself.
Happy new year to everybody here.
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lindasunhui

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wry3300(金币+5): fine~~~you choose your like way~~bless to you~~ 2012-01-01 09:54:24
lppv: 回帖置顶 2012-01-02 14:28:28
wry3300(金币+5): more~~ 2012-02-17 19:08:22
A few months ago, I had to make a choice. When I graduate, I'll come to futher study in a university of 985 without exam, but I'm not sure they will admit me or I'll follow my current teacher and do my research to got a Docter degree without exam, too, and I may go abroad to get the post Docter degree. However, the college I'm in now isn't a major. I was so intertwined with the condition that time. At the last, I chose the 985 university and they given the admittion. I thoutht I have made the right choice.
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userhung

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lppv(金币+2): nice picture haha, happy new year~~` 2012-01-01 21:02:48
lppv: 回帖置顶 2012-01-02 14:28:38
Natural choice!
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nigpasvan

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wry3300(金币+5): congratulate to your for your nice choice 2012-01-01 15:54:13
lppv: 回帖置顶 2012-01-02 14:28:40
When I got a master's degree in Chengdu, Sichuan Province, my friends suggested me to find a job in Chengdu which is not difficult for me. Actually a state enterprise gave me an offer last January. After a long time thinking, I refused that offer and tried my best to prepare and take the exam for entrance examination of a doctoral candidate of CAS for the reason that every body has a dream, including me. Now I become a student of CAS, and fell good. Facing a good job and my dream, I choose the later, what's your choice my dear friends?[/font]

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wry3300(金币+10): Know how to choose and learn how to give up~~~prefect sentence 2012-01-02 10:11:04
lppv: 回帖置顶 2012-01-02 14:26:24
lppv(ESEPI+1): you are like a philosopher~~~ 2012-01-02 14:27:06
   Every day, every hour, every minute and even every second, we are making choices.Some are very important, other are just components of life.When facing important choices, we should think carefully before a decision is made. You maybe become a successful man or a loser because of that decision.    Some choices have absolute answers,that is to say, when you are confronted with that choices, you should choose specified answers, and the other answers are wrong; the other choices have no absolute answer,that is to say, in one choice ,maybe A is right,maybe B,and maybe C.In other words, the right one depends on the situation.On that conditions, you should  conbine the choice with the situation to choose the proper choice.    Two different choices in daily life.      In last Wednesday, I participated an English test. It wrote'' Do the following statements agree with the information given in the text?'' In this situation, maybe you are supposed to choose the specified choice, and others are wrong.    As scene 1 says when facing"a steady job in his hometown" or "an uncertain  challenging job in the big city". Maybe different people have different choices, but Both can be all right. It depends on the person's characters,ambition, your parents opinion and so on.   Sometimes maybe both choices are wrong. In Zhao Benshan's crosstalk"Kill the pig first" or "kill the hourse first".
  So,"Know how to choose and learn how to give up" sounds well~  

PS. I like girls with ponytail
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小丁子

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wry3300(金币+10): nice sharon~~ 2012-01-02 17:50:52
lppv(ESEPI+1): Nice post. choice is difficult , once you decided, it won't be difficult. once the direction is certained, we will go ahead bravely... 2012-01-02 20:29:24


yeah, we confront with choices anytime and anywhere
it begins from the moment when you open you eyes in the morning
as for the little matters in daily life
when the alarm rings, you have to decide whether continue stay in the warm bed or get up decisively considering your dream
when you dress up, you may decide to choose which clothes to wear
when you go to the dining hall, you just wonder what to eat。。。
well, as for the big events in your life
when you will graduate, you have to confront with the choice
whether to study further, at home or aboard, or just go to work
as for your better half, you wanna know whom is the one you like and choose
just like the scene 3, you may take the reality into account
and when you have a family, you will face the problem like scene 3
or many other things you are entangled with。。。,etc
all in all, so many choices you have to decide in your daily and all life

well, as far as I am concerned, most of the time
it is the choice we suffer from, but not the thing itself
like guoguo said, once you made you decision, you may felt so clear
even though the thing may be hard to do, but when you know the direction
you could get it by your effort
after all, the choice determines the direction
so, wish us all have wise choices in different stages of our life for different choice

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小丁子(金币+2): well, the Libra may require perfect most of the time, it's just okay, and maybe sometimes we should just follow our heart to make the choice~~:) 2012-01-04 18:56:17
小丁子: 回帖置顶 2012-01-04 18:56:18
it is so difficult to make choice to Libra which is my zodiac sign. every time when i need make choice, it is terrible to me that i will sleeplessness until i make the decision. it is so bothered me. i hope i can make decision easy. maybe i am so overcautious.
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寒雨人生: Please post in english! 2011-12-31 20:02:44
lppv(金币-1, 违规存档): be careful, you came a wrong place, only english is allowed here. heihei , I am sorry, happy new year haha 2011-12-31 20:04:36
如果我有一棵快乐草,
我想将它给你,我希望你快乐;
如果我有两棵,我会给你一棵我一棵,希望我们都快乐;
如果有三棵,我会给你两棵,希望你比我快乐!
与快乐来次击掌,约好新年就要绽放;
麦克风会为你我鼓掌,欢笑会为你我伴唱;
新年的钟声即将敲响,你我要释放炙热的光芒为快乐歌唱。
祝福新年快乐!
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happy new year

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kill it
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wry3300(金币+1): slove this trouble··· 2011-12-31 21:11:20
trouble in choice
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4楼: Originally posted by anyluk at 2011-12-31 19:56:57:
如果我有一棵快乐草,
我想将它给你,我希望你快乐;
如果我有两棵,我会给你一棵我一棵,希望我们都快乐;
如果有三棵,我会给你两棵,希望你比我快乐!
与快乐来次击掌,约好新年就要绽放;
麦克风会为你我 ...

OH ,I am very sorry!
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哈喽

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wry3300(金币+1): happy xiao niren~~ 2011-12-31 21:26:08
wry3300(金币+9): 2012-02-17 19:08:55
Happy new year ,guoguo guy
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rogerhong

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wry3300(金币+6): it‘s really a question~~~whether you make any choice, please insist to do~~ 2011-12-31 21:31:23
As to me , even I have made a choice to stay in the big city(BEIJING), but I still don't know whether it is right or wrong, maybe everyone who make a choice to stay in big city feel a great pressure, or stay in big city is a habit, you are not suit to develop in big city.
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wry3300(金币+1): e~~lazy ~~ 2011-12-31 21:56:04
Go to bed, and happy new year~~~
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harbor2010

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lppv: english please, happy new year. 2011-12-31 23:03:02
祝福祝福了,呵呵,,,,,,,
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wry3300(金币+1): yeah~~do it yourself 2012-01-01 09:52:50
CHOOSE MY CHOICE.
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1050720207

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best wishes
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lilac_c

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very nice................
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mlanqiang

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good luck
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umbrella258

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wry3300(金币+2): yeah~~ what you said is good~~ 2012-01-01 11:20:15
In my opinion, i think make a choice is not about a right thing or a bad thing, what is important is how you deal with the choice whice you choose at last.
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wry3300(金币+3): 2012-02-17 19:09:38
just get the right choice !Go ahead  !happy new year!
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yinhu1988

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wry3300(金币+5): thanks~~ 2012-01-02 20:18:19
Actually, when you confront with a problem to be addressed, do not be afraid, just be brave to make your choice. First, you need to think carefully about this problem and make detailed consideration of your current situation. Once made up your mind, do not be afraid of failure, just keep your faith.
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xiaomeiliangxin

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wry3300(金币+6): 2012-02-17 19:10:07
i had no choice ,now .
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xiaomeiliangxin

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My present situation is no place
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lppv(金币-1, 违规存档): English a ~~~~ 2012-01-04 09:42:52
祝福祝福了,呵呵,,,,,,,
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“Know how to choose and learn how to give up” it seems very difficult for us to do well with choice.
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wry3300

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47楼: Originally posted by Justonestand at 2012-07-10 11:43:11
“Know how to choose and learn how to give up” it seems very difficult for us to do well with choice.

yeah  deal with it~~
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小木虫(沙发+1,金币+0.5):恭喜抢个沙发,再给个红包
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小木虫(金币+0.2):抢了个小板凳,给个红包
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