[交流] The appropriate is the best... 已有4人参与

well, I just caught the words on Youdao. dict, and I like it:

Don't set your goals according to what are deemed important by others. Only you know what is best for yourself.
别人认为重要的，并不就是你的追求。只有自己才知道什么最合适。

yeah, it is you who know yourself best
so just pursue your dream without the influence of others
but, maybe some of us don't know what is best for ourselves now
it's just okay, then you should take time to know yourself, the strength and shortcoming
at least you should figure out what you like, what will make you happy
that's really important, c's the appropriate is the best for you
you should not lost, for if you lost, then the others won't be able to find you
and you should be yourself

And I like the words by Steve Jobs,
he said in his books about the goal of one's life
"the only way to do great work is to love what you do,
if you haven't found it yet, keep looking. Don't settle.
As with all matters of the heart, you'll know when you find it."

So just keep on finding what you love to do,
for the one you love is the best
even it will take a long time
you should never give up
and you'll get it in the near future.

So, have you find what is best for you yet?