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[交流] [weekly topic] What’s your goal of life?

What’s your goal of life?


I was raised in a poor family when I was a child. And my dream then was to become a man of wealth and never need to worry about my living things. Then I grew up and the financial condition of my family became better than the past, I needn’t worry too much about that. But I always know that I am gonna rely on myself and never burden my parents too much. And now, I can just support myself since I  had a reasonable salary while I am still a student. I am not asking money from my parents. But I still feel sorry for all these years’ sacrifice they have made for me.

I have been thinking of this for some time. I am now in a hesitation of deciding whether I should follow my personal dream to go on further study abroad or just find a job to support my family after graduation.

I know all of you have your dreams and goal of life? So what you have in mind? Maybe we can share this together! Thank you, guys!




[ Last edited by 寒雨人生 on 2011-10-21 at 22:15 ]
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寒雨人生(金币+5): right! I need to think it over. I'm sure I have the energy and enthusiasticness to go on as I've never changed my mind since I became a college student... 2011-10-22 22:27:16
phu_grassman(ESEPI+1): I want to choose what I want to do instead of high-salary. It's always the case like that in the persuit of money, most of us will forget what real life means to us. 2011-10-24 13:19:18

goals and dreams? In fact, I am also thinking about these questions...

But first, am I clear on what I want and pursue?
some years before, I want to do some thing as my job and want to realize personal price. At that time, I didn't take many things into account and the "very thing" is the research... since just thought it was what I liked and wanted....

now, some years has passed, along with which some things have changed.... I gave up that dream, and the most important reason is I don't think really like to do it...
Sometimes, just like pp, I think it's a good idea and necessary to make a lot of money to get out of money issue, but to put an eye on my daily life, taking job hunting as an example, do I really care the money greatly? If there is a job available with high salary, as well as hard work condition such as long work time and high intensity, would I like to take it? probably the answer is No. ....

Maybe I am pursuing peace, happiness and a balance of life, including job, family, money, friends, rest and enjoyment, and so on. And at the current stage, work wins my most attention....


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