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[交流] [weekly topic] What’s your goal of life?

What’s your goal of life?


I was raised in a poor family when I was a child. And my dream then was to become a man of wealth and never need to worry about my living things. Then I grew up and the financial condition of my family became better than the past, I needn’t worry too much about that. But I always know that I am gonna rely on myself and never burden my parents too much. And now, I can just support myself since I  had a reasonable salary while I am still a student. I am not asking money from my parents. But I still feel sorry for all these years’ sacrifice they have made for me.

I have been thinking of this for some time. I am now in a hesitation of deciding whether I should follow my personal dream to go on further study abroad or just find a job to support my family after graduation.

I know all of you have your dreams and goal of life? So what you have in mind? Maybe we can share this together! Thank you, guys!

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寒雨人生(金币+1): thank you! 2011-10-21 22:17:31
You should follow your  dream to go on further study .
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寒雨人生(金币+1): yes, another week... 2011-10-21 22:17:47
time is flying, another week passed...
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I would like to have much much money which cannot be spent over.
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4楼: Originally posted by lppv at 2011-10-21 22:22:28:
I would like to have much much money which cannot be spent over.


cai mi!
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You should follow your  heart!
8楼2011-10-21 23:41:04
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Happiness
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寒雨人生(金币+1): err, this is impossible, there must be someone dislike you, and it's normal... 2011-10-22 22:15:21
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1楼: Originally posted by 寒雨人生 at 2011-10-21 22:08:59:
[box=green]

What’s your goal of life?


[box=white]I was raised in a poor family when I was a  ...

i wish all people love me
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寒雨人生(金币+1): Yeah, maybe you are right. But don't you just feel obliged to support your family? 2011-10-22 22:16:30
A dream is primer to our life. Now the living things seems no problem, so what we have to do is try to practice, and turn the dream into relatility.
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follow your dream
17楼2011-10-22 09:22:24
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寒雨人生(金币+1): And I'm a postgraduate too. What I was in hesitation is whether to go and get a doctor's degree... 2011-10-22 22:18:06
I had the same question with you 1 years ago,then I choose to go on further study,and now I'm a postgraduate.
18楼2011-10-22 09:39:05
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寒雨人生(金币+1): yes, that's a way to realize my dream...and also seems to be a compromise... 2011-10-22 22:19:04
If the job is suit for you , take it . Then do the job well, and you will have the chance to go on further study abroad!
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To be happy.
20楼2011-10-22 10:01:16
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寒雨人生(金币+1):谢谢参与
go on further study abroad
22楼2011-10-22 10:28:35
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Do not let slip  if you have the opportunity of a good job.
24楼2011-10-22 10:57:04
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more BBs  

as much as you can
25楼2011-10-22 10:59:26
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4楼: Originally posted by lppv at 2011-10-21 22:22:28:
I would like to have much much money which cannot be spent over.

Hehe,you're honest.BTW,your signature changes so frequently these days.
28楼2011-10-22 12:29:29
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28楼: Originally posted by 碎音坠 at 2011-10-22 12:29:29:
Hehe,you're honest.BTW,your signature changes so frequently these days.

thank you for your attention to my signature
29楼2011-10-22 12:32:04
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29楼: Originally posted by lppv at 2011-10-22 12:32:04:
thank you for your attention to my signature

Why touxiao?
30楼2011-10-22 12:34:47
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30楼: Originally posted by 碎音坠 at 2011-10-22 12:34:47:
Why touxiao?

not touxiao, just happy and moved, thank you so much for your attention.
31楼2011-10-22 12:35:57
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31楼: Originally posted by lppv at 2011-10-22 12:35:57:
not touxiao, just happy and moved, thank you so much for your attention.

Haha,wo yi jing zhu yi ni hen jiu le
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for live!
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money
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Happiness
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寒雨人生(金币+1): thank U! 2011-10-22 22:22:50
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寒雨人生(金币+5): right! I need to think it over. I'm sure I have the energy and enthusiasticness to go on as I've never changed my mind since I became a college student... 2011-10-22 22:27:16
phu_grassman(ESEPI+1): I want to choose what I want to do instead of high-salary. It's always the case like that in the persuit of money, most of us will forget what real life means to us. 2011-10-24 13:19:18

goals and dreams? In fact, I am also thinking about these questions...

But first, am I clear on what I want and pursue?
some years before, I want to do some thing as my job and want to realize personal price. At that time, I didn't take many things into account and the "very thing" is the research... since just thought it was what I liked and wanted....

now, some years has passed, along with which some things have changed.... I gave up that dream, and the most important reason is I don't think really like to do it...
Sometimes, just like pp, I think it's a good idea and necessary to make a lot of money to get out of money issue, but to put an eye on my daily life, taking job hunting as an example, do I really care the money greatly? If there is a job available with high salary, as well as hard work condition such as long work time and high intensity, would I like to take it? probably the answer is No. ....

Maybe I am pursuing peace, happiness and a balance of life, including job, family, money, friends, rest and enjoyment, and so on. And at the current stage, work wins my most attention....


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寒雨人生(金币+1): A 100% man! haha, May all your dreams come true in the future! 2011-10-22 22:28:34
you are a boy?
I hope to make a lot of money in the future,find a satisfactory job,
hope my family peace and happiness~
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follow your heart=怂
坚持一个目标,并且不断的修正
41楼2011-10-22 18:37:43
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do what i want do
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寒雨人生(金币+1): thanks! I will have a try...haha 2011-10-22 22:29:28
There's nothing to worry. Just do it according to the voice from your heart.If you decide to get further study, i believe it won't burden your parents because there will be subside,so go ahead,do your favourite.
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寒雨人生(金币+2): Thanks and best wishes! 2011-10-22 22:29:58
thanks for your sharing.
I'd like to say most of us have the same experience,
but not all have the dreams, or not all have the same dreams.
To my family, I wish my parents,wife.... all my family will be fine.
Now we are not short of money, not enough money, but to spend our normal living, so I hope my family and my friends no pains and aches.
To me, I wish to be a leader of a plant or a company, or do some business. haha!
thanks for your reading and listening to me.
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寒雨人生(金币+1): I'm in my first year now,haha, best wishes... 2011-10-22 22:30:51
I have the same feeling.I am 24 now,but I had to take money from my parents.Sometimes,I feel confused if I should study forward.Now, I am Second-year graduate,I just want to finish my subject as soon as possible, and then go to earn money.
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Be happy every day!~
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