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His sudden call arose my peaceful heart, reminding me of the impression my roommate once said that there was still a place for him. I am wondering whether it is true. Where am I, in dilemma? I loved him in the first sight when I was a middle school student, and never stopped to try in my life, expecting to be marched with the one. However, he is the pure pearl without dirt while I am getting bad so that I will not reach him any more in my last life. I told him that I did not love him at the time, which was painful but would be the best way to save our friendship. Many years later, I find I am wrong, although I think my heart feel unconcerned with his matters, it turns out to be the other side. Any time he called me, I would be pleased for a long time. Things are going wrong thoroughly. I have one in my life that is behind me wherever I am. I told everyone he was left in my heart several years ago, but I cannot just let it go. Sometimes, I think maybe it would be another scene if I had encouraged myself to show my heart to him. Nevertheless, what shall I do now? I hope to be fair to my boyfriend, but I just cannot calm down when his shadow appear in my mind. Every now and then, I said to myself that I could do that. But I cannot cheat myself when BF asked me who in my heart was the handsomest, I lied. To that, I feel inner guilty so that I try to be more kind to my boyfriend, which he will never know it is the transaction. I am happy with BF with no doubt. Just I don't know where the hell my heart is! Who can tell me? |
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寒雨人生(金币+4): Thank u for offering advice ! 2011-09-23 16:58:59
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Emotional problems are always complex. May i ask you a question? Is your boyfriend at your side or far away? From what you said, i feel that you and your boyfriend have a general relationship, but i'm not sure. So is that right? Anyway, in my thought, maybe you don't love your boyfriend from the beginning. Do not be angry about what i said, you may ask yourself whether this is true. Because If you love your boyfriend and he loves you too, i'm sure the true love will make you get closer and closer, not to mention several years have passed. It is impossible to remember someone else in that situation.Do you agree? So make sure which situation you are now, and try to make a decision istantly. GOOD LUCK! |
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寒雨人生(金币+4): Love is always a more complicated issue...Hope you can just manage all these... 2011-09-23 17:00:50
寒雨人生(金币+4): Love is always a more complicated issue...Hope you can just manage all these... 2011-09-23 17:00:50
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my BF resigned the job, left our hometown and now worked in the next city near my school, only to be closer to me.sometimes I doubt my feeling to him that may be not love,however,his negligence to me upset me a great deal. I thought that was reliance when two persons were in a long time.once i left him ,that would disappear.the problem is that my conscience tells me that i can not live up to the one who is so kind to me,all the way.his unhappiness is what i am unwilling to know,esp. caused by me.how complex! Thank you for your hearken. |
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