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look, divorce is still an extremely ugly thing in today's society in China, especially in small places. Othere are social and cultural explanations for the attitude toward divorce but I don't wanna explicate this at this moment. i think it is unfair for women who live in such kind of culture when they have problems with the husband look, I am very glad you want share this with me, and feel very sorry about what happened to you. What I want to do now is to help you feel better and sort things out and clarify your own mind so that you can move on and have a more joyful life I know that it is most painful when people are in a situation that is not clear, no decision made yet, and worry much about the unknown, uncertainty.some times, even a bad known/certainty, is better than unknown/ uncertainty, and our brain, have the magical power to justify the new determined situation, rehabilitate, and find ways to make ourselves feel safe, comfortable, and happy. So, think over your life, if you think you guys can get back to be sweet couple, do something to awake him, if not, make a choice as soon as possible. Don't care about what others say, don't be scared by the social pressure. Good luck and be strong, be yourself |
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