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[交流] How do you deal with the situation being misunderstood by others

People always have their own measures even with a same code. They come from different backgrouds and that often means each of them has different views.For instance, I envy you have such a glamorous, fun-filled house and consider you must be more happy then the rest of us.But in fact, you hold a totally different view and think that I misunderstand you,even you are eager to lead a life of a tramp, no worry about youselves and maybe some regard it as, in some sense, a perfect life.
Ok,that is enough. What I want to know when the situation happens, in fact you cannot avoid being misunderstood by someone else. How do you cope with it?

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In such situation, I always keep silent, sometimes silence is better than explanation. i believe time will prove that I am innocent.
but if someone asks me, i will tell them the truth.
I have a bad behavior, if I know someone "misunderstands" me, I don`t explain it to them, i will leave them as far as possible, let alone make friends.