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[交流] How do you deal with the situation being misunderstood by others

People always have their own measures even with a same code. They come from different backgrouds and that often means each of them has different views.For instance, I envy you have  such a glamorous, fun-filled house and consider you must be more happy then the rest of us.But in fact, you hold a totally different view and think that I misunderstand you,even you are eager to lead a life of a tramp, no worry about youselves and maybe some regard it as, in some sense, a perfect life.
Ok,that is enough. What I want to know when the situation happens, in fact you cannot avoid  being misunderstood by someone else. How do you cope with it?
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In such situation, I always keep silent, sometimes silence is better than explanation. i believe time will prove that I am innocent.
but if someone asks me, i will tell them the truth.
I have a bad behavior, if I know someone "misunderstands" me, I don`t explain it to them, i will leave them as far as possible, let alone make friends.
家有小子初长成!(Nothing is impossible to a willing heart!)
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I am not that into you. 其实你不懂我的心
人活着好没意思啊
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when I am misunderstood, I just explain, but not much.

after that, let it be .
人活着好没意思啊
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Suddenly I just remember a song "let it be"!
生平不抽烟,不饮酒,不喝咖啡,一杯龙井相伴,笑读五经诸史;惟愿少鲁莽,少冲动,少说气话,三思后行为戒,淡看百事纷争。
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keep silent mostly
but i find most real friend will understand you soon
they will assess you by your behavior
besides, maybe someone will never understand you
be yourself
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Originally posted by sos-green at 2011-06-30 22:30:26:
keep silent mostly
but i find most real friend will understand you soon
they will assess you by your behavior
besides, maybe someone will never understand you
be yourself

I go along with your idea.

In fact, I am very sad due to being understood by others,
but sometimes it is no use to explain!
家有小子初长成!(Nothing is impossible to a willing heart!)
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sometimes, just let it be.
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