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[交流] 【Share】Trust yourself

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I just had a lovely chat with one of my dearest friends. we have always been able to talk about big things -- what is important to us and how that is evolving, what our experiences have taught us. I love hearing her perspective, because she's not just smart, but is also so thoughtful and has a great outlook on life.

Tonight's conversation centered on the idea that life should be a series of decisions we make, not a series of events that happen to us. We talked about how we can accomplish the most by making decisions we can stand by, and how this means finding the fine balance between considering external views without neglecting our ever-important gut.

Trusting my gut has been one of the most difficult barriers to reaching my full potential. Watching my most intelligent friends struggle with confidence academically, in daily choices and even in major life decisions, I see that I'm not alone. Sometimes I wonder if there is some sort of inverse relationship between intellect and self-confidence. I don't mean to say that I think I am surrounded by people who constantly feel bad about themselves, but maybe I am trying to say that I do feel like I'm constantly surrounded by people who do not see how truly amazing and brilliant they are.

I think several confounded variables make us a group of dwellers and worriers, but regardless of why, a lack of trust in ourselves may be holding us back. We have all come this far in our lives, and although our lives and careers are just beginning, we have made sound decisions to get us here. This, I think, should give us confidence that we are capable of making good choices. As long as we continue making decisions from a good place, I think this confidence and letting go of fear of failure will help us reach our full potential.

After all, how can we expect patients to have confidence in our decisions if we do not have it ourselves?
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now ，what can we believe，doctor ，maybe，what i can say to them，in this world，what they are looking for is only money。
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Originally posted by 云淡风清7837 at 2011-04-08 17:34:06:
http://news.ifeng.com/society/2/detail_2011_04/08/5609461_0.shtml
now ，what can we believe，doctor ，maybe，what i can say to them，in this world，what they are looking for is ...

i see that right now
doctors and hospitals should care more about the health of the patients instead of money
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Originally posted by winzhouyun at 2011-04-08 17:48:27:
i see that right now
doctors and hospitals should care more about the health of the patients instead of money

but ，but ，do you think that can be come true in a few days?
tell me the real think as a doctor
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Originally posted by 云淡风清7837 at 2011-04-08 17:50:56:
but ，but ，do you think that can be come true in a few days?
tell me the real think as a doctor

i hope so!
when one day
the costs of curing patients are paid by country not by patients
if the patients are cured, the doctors are given bonous
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Originally posted by winzhouyun at 2011-04-08 17:55:06:
i hope so!
when one day
the costs of curing patients are paid by country not by patients
if the patients are cured, the doctors are given bonous

you say that one day 。when？maybe a few years，maybe one  hundred year，but i think we cant see that。
today one of  professors in our Institute give us a leason. in the class,he said in his Statu(he is the best prof in the field of our country) he also need pay 20%when he go to the hospital.if he still need to do this,how about we.no money no statue
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Originally posted by 云淡风清7837 at 2011-04-08 18:13:29:
you say that one day 。when？maybe a few years，maybe one  hundred year，but i think we cant see that。
today one of  professors in our Institute give us a leason. in the class,he said in his St ...

what u can do is to do more exercises to keep health
to learn more and work hard to gain more money
that's what i do now
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Originally posted by winzhouyun at 2011-04-08 18:18:01:
what u can do is to do more exercises to keep health
to learn more and work hard to gain more money
that's what i do now

in the place where i study,some of our boss do the research for the money.
i have to say,the army have so much money ，they have enough founding to do what they want to research
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