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Compared with older generation who started to make a living at 16,18,or 20, today more and more young people wouldn’t have their course firmly set until to be nearly 30. pls. analyze this social phenomenon and give your comments.

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嘉嘉有轶(金币+3): 2011-03-08 08:47:04

This is a tradition of responsibility, we hope we can live up to the expectations of our parents~

Generally, the child will be only too aware of what the parent expects，therefore，we always felt that the children in the burden too heavy.

But all of us know that it is difficult for us to always live up to the expectations of our parents.

In order to live up to their parents expectations, most of the kids have to study hard even over vacations.

But then who knows what might actually end up happening?

Maybe。。。

The kids will watch for signs of overload such as grouchiness, complaining about activities, brushing off practice time, changes in sleeping patterns, or failing school grades.

These problems are related to parental expectations, the child's temperament and biologic rhythms, and child-parent interactions.

I always want to make things happily, and make less mistakes If that happens I wil very happy~

In my opinion，it takes courageous parents to accept the outcome and praise the "BEST" effort even if it's not what the parents expected. And for ourselves，please separate our expections from those of our parents，oherwise we will wake up and realize we're not living our own life in future.